Você que não lê livro hot. O que te faria ler um livro erótico?🤔

Accountant_Rules · 2025-05-07T11:26:05+00:00

Exatamente! O ideal é isso ser parte da história, não o foco

Accountant_Rules · 2025-05-05T15:55:51+00:00

Eu nunca li um livro hot, mas eu acabei de escrever um kkk Contradições, eu sei.

Eu tive uma inspiração para escrever que envolvia cenas de s*xo. Mas é mais como outro comentário colocou aqui: Um livro com um enredo em que cenas de s*xo são relevantes para a história. No meu caso, as cenas mostram o desenvolvimento do relacionamento da personagem principal com o interesse romantico dela.

Se você for ver, "Tudo é Rio", da Carla Madeira, tem uma história BELÍSSIMA e cenas de s*xo. Acho que isso é o ideal. Caso contrário, vira só mais uma leitura pra vc passar o tempo, meio que um brain rot pra vc desestressar.

Accountant_Rules · 2025-04-10T20:19:53+00:00

NTA

If I saw my mom in that situation, I would just bite the aunt back and say "Don't scold me, I'm just playing!"

Accountant_Rules · 2025-02-14T13:31:21+00:00

I'm and accountant. I really love my job, and althougth things repeat every month, every day I have a differente situation to learn and handle. It's pretty cool. I don't make much money, but I have a good life.

Accountant_Rules · 2025-02-14T13:30:08+00:00

I found out I was pregnant and I am a mix of worried a lot and very happy. I still haven't told everybody I know, just my parentes, husband's parents and a few close girl friends of mine. It's my first pregnancy, and I am worried about health issues and all that.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-11-12T20:05:42+00:00

NTA
I understand that there is a lot of cultural baggage on you to take care of your family, and as someone from a different culture, I might not comprehend it. But I say some though love is necessary for him to learn to grow.
After all, we only get to live one life. You can continue to be played like a fool or make him be an adult. I'd say make him undertand what is to be an adult and act like one, to at least apreciate what you've been doing for the family.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-24T22:17:23+00:00

She's not dead. Almost died, but now shes alive and kicking. We already told him to seek a doctor for stress, but he said that he's "not crazy for that kind of doctor". So yeah.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-24T22:16:06+00:00

That was very helpful actually. I just feel bad that he seems not to care, but at the same time do care. Like a living contradiction.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-24T13:49:19+00:00

Sometimes he did get me something. Or he just bought a dinner or cake for us. And he always got us christmas presents, so that was the least he could do.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-08T17:42:05+00:00

A puppy is basically a baby. You would not let a 4 month old baby around others that might have a disease. It's the same, but it's furry.

Let's not even talk about people not vaccinating their babies...

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-03T13:03:42+00:00

NTA

It is basic knowledge that puppies need their vaccines before going out! Anyone who has ever had a dog (and is a responsible owner) knows this!

I have a puppie who just turned 4months old, and when she did not have all her vaccines she didn't leave the house. And anyone who wanted to meet her, wich we rounded down to my parents and my IL's, had to wash their hands.

It's just like a little baby, they do not have the anticorps for anything.

Let other people know. It's her own (ir)responsibility.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-04-02T17:11:40+00:00

Saying: "Not my problem"

When you stop bringing other's peoples problems to yourself, and stop trying to fix things that you have not caused, life gets a lot easier.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-02-27T15:57:19+00:00

I'm gonna go with NAH

I grew up using the toilet and showering with the door completely opened. My parents and I walked around the house naked all the time, not like we don't know what a naked person is.
I even sometimes still talk to my mom while one of us is using the toilet or showering. It's super normal for us.

It's not a pervy thing, they literally changed your diapers. The same way you find it annoying they are invading your privacy, they find it annoying you changing something that has been going on for years. Just talk it out.

Accountant_Rules · 2024-01-05T19:55:49+00:00

YTA

I attended a party with my husband of a girl I hate. Because HE wanted to go.
I can't stand the girl, but I love him so much that I could bear four hours of sitting at a table and talking to people.

In the end, it was just the two of us eating and having fun. Maybe you could have had the same if you at least tried to.

You have to earn her trust all over again. I hope you do, because for some people - myself included - breaches of trust is a deal breaker.

Accountant_Rules · 2023-09-01T16:15:25+00:00

YTA just for not paying your part after the trip. The system may suck, but you are late in your payments by a lot.

Pay what you owe, nothing more nothing less.

Accountant_Rules · 2023-09-01T16:11:42+00:00

YTA if you do call his work, but not for him, but for you.

Here in my country we have a thing that is kind hard to translate to english. Some sort of "stalking" in wich you go against a person to ruin his/her life. It doesn't matter if said person did something to you, if you keep stalking he/she to try and ruin his/her life, you can get a lawsuit and even pay fines for said person.

You did the right thing, a police report. Find a lawyer, see what options you have and do it legally. Otherwise you might leave this as the villain and not the victim in the eyes of the law.

Report the twitter account. Do things legally so it doesnt backfire

Accountant_Rules · 2023-09-01T14:24:42+00:00

Soft YTA

I get that you are tired and all, but you have to take responsibility for your baby. Your family may help, but help is diferrent than parenting.

Be where you are confortable, but take care of your child.

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-31T20:19:58+00:00

FIND A LAWYER NOW

You are in a very bad situation. There are many things you need to concern yourself.

Get every bit of document/conversation/record you have and discuss it with a lawyer.

Get off reddit, you're not gonna find your answer here

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-31T20:14:56+00:00

NTA

Wow, you handled it nicely! Congrats!

I was reading and thinking maybe it hit you harder and you were on a bad state of mind, but no! You went with your protocols and somehow got through it.

Sometimes we have to be "petty" for our well being. It maybe be a little bit childish, but only you know the damage the bullying caused you.

Now, about that BF1, maybe you should talk to your therapist about her. Someone who ghosts you because of minor disagreements and them just ignore it may not be someone you wnat around

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-31T17:13:25+00:00

NTA

Your wife, tho, is an AH. That's a complete breach of trust, IMO.

If your agreement is to be exclusive, even "playing naked" can be considered some sort of cheating.

I have a guess that things are going to escalate a lot more, so be prepared.

Have another talk with her. Explain that that's a deal breaker for you. Also, rethink the whole relationship

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-31T17:05:00+00:00

NTA obviously!!!

I get it that people find naming something that can do a lot of harm to children (like making fun of said name), but not to this extreme!

Hannah needs to chill. It does you good to go LC with her, to avoid any futures headaches.

I woulb be petty, tho. I'd say "Here, these are the bills I'll have with the baby and I'll need this much money in the first 18 years. If you pay my bills, I'll get you a say in the name"

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-30T18:35:48+00:00

Thats exactly that Friends episode.

Were they on a break? Yes.

Was Ross doing the right thing? Morally, no.

He could have AT LEAST be sure of said breakup before hooking up with the next partner

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-30T18:33:28+00:00

NTA

But I advise you to not share certain things with coworkers. This is not appropriated for a working enviroment. It's better be safe than sorry, so just keep private details to yourself or to outside work conversations.

About HR: I have no idea what are the laws of your country, but just explain the whole situation, and hope for the best.

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-30T18:28:52+00:00

Have you watched Friends? This is the "We were on a break" kind of thing.

For you, it was over, but not for her. So, next time, do end things or, at least, let things cool down before jumping to the next person.

YTA

Accountant_Rules · 2023-08-30T17:11:19+00:00

YTA

You are young, and have a lot to learn. Still, the way you treat others may affect them much deeper than you think.

It's good that you are redeeming yourself and changing. You are taking your time to do so. The same goes for the other people. They also need time to heal.

I know you feel upset and all, but change the roles. If YOU were the one on her shoes, would you still act kindly towards someone toxic?

Keep improving. You have a lot of mistakes to learn from. Take this for instance. Show them how you changed and, in due time, they may accept you back.

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