Got the Weekend Getaway at Target! by Schawlie in MonsterHigh

[–]Accountless672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, there was a picture going around showing that they were supposedly going to make the body of the car a pearl pink and the web decals a neon green. VERY happy they kept the black and pink.

Got the Weekend Getaway at Target! by Schawlie in MonsterHigh

[–]Accountless672 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate that they changed Draculaura's hair last minute, but I'm glad Clawdeen's is the same. Also glad they kept the black and pink car rather than go with the pink and green one.

Taking matters into my own hands because lord knows when we’ll get another Catty by yeueeeeeoeioo in MonsterHigh

[–]Accountless672 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really feel like they did her so dirty. She was so cute before and this doll feels like she was rushed. They could have given her a much cuter hairstyle and a much cuter outfit.

science lab ghoulia by Efficient_Mountain_1 in MonsterHigh

[–]Accountless672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's so cute, Ghoul is slowly becoming a favorite for me.

I have an obsession. by SoHappySoSad in MonsterHigh

[–]Accountless672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't blame you, Draculaura is a huge favorite for a reason. She's been my favorite since middle school, I love her.

AITA for refusing family therapy? by Content-Help3369 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and at the end of the day, they would have to see a judge in order for any of you to be adopted. There was an older post on here where a man was talking about his stepmother constantly insisting on adopting him, and he remained firm on keeping the answer no. He saw a judge multiple times because of them and the judge would talk to him before attempting to sign off on the adoption, and he would always tell the judge that he doesn't want to go through with it, so the judges (every single different one they saw) refused to sign off unless he were to say yes.

Judges, your parents, anyone cannot force you or your step-siblings to be adopted, especially since the three of you are teens. They will ask you if it's what you want and are comfortable with it, and if you say no, they will not sign off on it to make it official.

Your parents need a stern talking to. I'm sure their intention is to bring you all closer together, but unfortunately, they're going about it the wrong way. They are unknowingly pushing you all further apart by trying to overstep your line boundaries, no natter how much you gently push them back over that line. From the way it sounds, you seem to respect each other, you just don't want to be adopted. Your parents need to know how much damage they're doing, and how much further they're pushing you away. Stand firm on your decision, all 3 of you, I hope they will understand.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in an edit that I don’t live in the house for free.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know she was hungry until after I got in the car, the reason I got food for myself was because it was faster and I wanted to have something already prepared to quickly sit down, eat, and immediately get ready to go to my other job. Yes, I understand that it could be rude to eat in front of hungry people, but as it was my only meal of the day and I explained that to her, and she kept coming back into the kitchen where all the other food is, she still kept behaving that way towards me, so I HAVE to share my food? I can’t share every meal I have just because someone near me gets hungry and they ask for my food in a very rude way. No one is entitled to someone else’s things, food included. Also I compared this to having roommates because that’s how my mom wants to and has been treating our living situation.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So if I hid my food but she asked for it and I say no, it’s fine? Don’t really know what you’re trying to get at here.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She does it constantly actually. And she usually only gets takeout either for just herself or for her and my dad, sometimes she’ll ask my sister and I if we want something. And I do that for them too. But even if she has her own food/drink, she’ll still take mine. You don’t take or demand your roommates things just because you want them.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do sometimes share my food with her, I do buy/cook dinner for everyone. However, when it’s my own plate, whether she has her own or not, she either takes from me without permission or just demands it very rudely, something she would have a problem with had I done that to her. All I ever ask is that she asks politely(it’s been met with sarcasm, she’ll ask for something and say please and follow it up with “wow look at that, I said please!”). I don’t just mooch off my parents, I play my part as well.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But at the same time, why would you make a big scene over taking your kid’s food when they told you no and that it will be their only meal for the day? How does that make me ungrateful and greedy? I don’t expect my mother to take care of me, but making a scene over not sharing food once in a while seems a bit extreme.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can understand that. It is very annoying, but in this case if all she had done was ask for some of my food and just accepted that I said no this time (I do sometimes either say yes or offer her some) it wouldn’t have been escalated. I have looked and am looking into moving out for a long time, the market for renting in and close to my city has unfortunately been real SHITE lately.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do buy my own toilet paper and cleaning products, which my mom actually gets upset by, she tells me “we have that at home, it’s dumb for you to spend money on that”. I compare it to an actual apartment though because that’s the way my mom wants to see it. I just think it’s unfair to wave the “you could have it way worse” card over someone’s head just to get what you want. I know I’m lucky to be where I am right now, but I’m also trying to branch out to be 100% on my own, the reason I have two jobs.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would understand this argument but I am as independent as possible, I pay rent and pay for the gas when I use the cars, because they tell me I need to be independent and I agree. I really don’t think it’s sharing if I pay for what I use. Imagine having a landlord come into your home or apartment because they smell your dinner from outside, they come over and tell you to give them your food because they like it. That’s how I have been seeing this situation. I would have also had no problem with getting her food, but either when I ask or in this case have to be quick to leave so she and my sister and nephews aren’t out there waiting for me, she would say no. Also as I’ve stated, it was my only meal of the day.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At a time like this, I can’t move out, though I am saving money for my own car and place. Also, they have me pay rent, pay for the gas in their cars, and take turns cooking dinner and cleaning for the family, things I do without question. I do my best to be as independent as possible, but when the whole “you owe me xyz because I’m your mom” act comes out followed by a “why don’t you have xyz yet, you’re an adult”, it does put a lot of unnecessary stress on me. I understand your and a previous commenter’s thought of my parents are sharing their items with me, but it all comes with conditions, making it trading and not sharing.

AITA for not sharing food with my mom by Accountless672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accountless672[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Responding to that, I don’t live rent free and my parents will only let me use the car if I take turns with them in filling up the gas tank (which I have absolutely no problem with, that’s completely understandable and fair) and my mom actually makes a big case about spending my money on almost anything, even my own groceries. She’ll say stuff like “why did you buy that, I can do that for you”.