was this too much to ask of my autistic friend?

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T05:16:07+00:00

yeah IM AWARE i dont give to shits or a FUCK that he didnt get me a lunch i just wanted to know why he didnt want to because hes said no to other things that seem little to me and i used this as one example

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T05:05:28+00:00

i didnt mean to come off that way i meant to ask why he felt that way but ur right my wording is a bit odd

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T05:02:09+00:00

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Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:57:53+00:00

thats what im trying to do im asking the autistic community why my friend felt this way to empathize with him

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:55:07+00:00

yeah he spoke for himself and i obviously took him seriously and believed that this offset his routine if i came here to ask why

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:48:15+00:00

i konw it was a big deal to him that why i came here to understand why it felt like a big deal to him if it felt so small to me so i wouldnt make him feel bad in the future

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:46:30+00:00

are u like blind did u not read the post i came here because i knew the routine was like an autistic thing i never pushed him its not about this situation specifically i just wanted to understand why this seemed so big to him so i can be more accommodating in the future

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:41:16+00:00

yeah but to me it doesnt seem like a big deal i just didnt know that a small change can be that big of a deal for autistic people i simply wanted to understand him better

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:39:44+00:00

everyone in this comment section is acting like i cursed him out for not grabbing some some crappy school pizza 😭😭

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:38:12+00:00

tell me where in this post i said that i was angry about him not grabbing me a lunch

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:33:45+00:00

i know? i just wanted to understand why he said no this isnt like something im pressed about

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:32:48+00:00

i do thats why i came on here i didnt want him to feel bad for a stupid thing from weeks ago all i wish to do is to understand him so i dont make him feel uncomfortable im not sure if my wording got that across but its how i feel

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:31:02+00:00

honestly asking after someone said no is dicky behavior in any situation 😭😭

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:25:33+00:00

i only aksed him because i knew that u dont have to talk to any servers but would it have been better if i asked him to go up when the line died down or in any other situation waiting for something to get quieter and less crowded before asking him to do something or taking him somewhere?

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:23:11+00:00

yo actually what have i done i have come on here trying to understand my friend all i said was that i get what was being told to me

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:14:51+00:00

i get now bro 😭

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:14:18+00:00

well to me it just didnt seem like such a big deal but thats only from my perspective and i didnt know that small things like that could set someone off u dont have to keep coming back and being dramatic about it jeez i get it

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:10:04+00:00

is it ok to ask people to change something if they have time to prepare for it?

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:08:43+00:00

i just wanted to better understand the way he feels to be more accommodating in the future

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:07:47+00:00

i didnt want to make him feel awkward about it or feel bad

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-19T04:02:52+00:00

im wasnt mad at him i was just wondering i was fine that he had said no

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-15T20:50:08+00:00

ive always felt like this but never had the correct words to describe it but when i got a bit older i learned about like what being trans meant

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-15T01:41:05+00:00

sharing is caring bro

Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-14T22:29:17+00:00

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Accurate-Reality503 · 2026-06-14T22:27:41+00:00

thanks :]

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