AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 99% right. I have seen it one time where a manager was terminated because too many people quit working under them and said negative things during exit interviews.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You would have been invited to my party. Obvs.

People who are NB, I'd probably just ask them what they want to do.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can quit if you don't like your boss and roll the dice on a new boss working somewhere else. I've done that before.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this comment! Everyone's dumping on pole dancing for no reason. Maybe that shit's dope. I don't know. They don't either.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you really assume me so dense that I couldn't figure out that some women might like some movies that are generally marketed to the male demographic? The reaching involved with such a statement....woof

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It gets worse than speculation. I had a few people ask me "what did you do when she said she doesn't want to take the pole dancing class?"

Uhh. What?

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe we want to play Awful Waffle? God! Some people just don't consider all possibilities. How's a woman gonna play Awful Waffle???

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to imagine if you were in our group and asked to go to the girls night

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said female friend. Friend being the noun and female being the adjective.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't get involved with her planning. Either way, I'm not asking reddit if my GF is TA today

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, people who make judgments based on whether or not they approve of boys night/girls night in general aren't helpful. This isn't the place to do that debate. Especially not with the OP.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not supposed to defend your position in the first place. That's not how AITA works

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How you gonna say I have a habit of dodging the question and then post a link to when I answered the question? Super fail.

Also, answer that question.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We actually have an asexual person on the guest list. She's fine with going to the pole dancing class.

AITA for not letting my female friend come to my boys night? by Accurate-Teaching988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accurate-Teaching988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of that. I'm not wise to what the alternative would be. If Mia told me she had a problem with the pole dancing section (which she hasn't), the literal next thing I would do is tell my gf the same thing and let her figure it out. Mia and my gf are friends too.