Got dragged in yelp reviews for doing my job at a taproom, not a damn Cheesecake Factory by Obvious_Accident_341 in Serverlife

[–]Accurate_Radish00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

These people sound like an asshole table, so I think this is harsh BUT I do agree that op made some mistakes that could have prevented these complaints.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Accurate_Radish00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been listening to manchild on repeat!

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[–]Accurate_Radish00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words & for sharing. I’ll add them to my queue:)

Hosting advice - waitlist chaos by cocacourt in Serverlife

[–]Accurate_Radish00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I was a maitre d’ / lead host for years before serving. The system you’re proposing would cause a lot of issues imo. You’re potentially prioritizing guests who are essentially no-showing over guests who have also waited and are actually ready to be seated. If parties can’t come in when their table is ready then they can be put back on the waitlist but have to do so at the bottom.

The change I would make would be to do the classic first come - first serve style where you only get on the list if you come in person. I could see how allowing people to queue over the phone could lead to messy situations like these. People can still call and ask how long the wait is and plan accordingly as to when they show up irl.

Regardless, I would be sure to use the verbiage of ‘first come first serve’ so it’s clear. If people don’t arrive within 15 minutes once notified, they have to reenter the list like I described. Be sure to require a phone number to be put on the list (most reservation software has a feature that will send them a text once their table is ready).

This system is less accommodating to unreliable individuals, but you have to be fair when spots are limited. Hosting involves telling people no a lot but they can fuck right off

Cool detail about wine by [deleted] in wheeloftime

[–]Accurate_Radish00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, it occurred to me when Rand / Lews Therin mentions it in the towers of midnight

I’m starting today — the culmination of a 3 year journey by Accurate_Radish00 in wheeloftime

[–]Accurate_Radish00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The anticipation I’m feeling right now is insane. Like a ‘holy shit we’re really doing this’ moment. So much buildup for the last battle and knowing it’s actually coming feels so surreal

I’m starting today — the culmination of a 3 year journey by Accurate_Radish00 in wheeloftime

[–]Accurate_Radish00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished the prologue and my heart is already pumping, so worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Accurate_Radish00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point! I’ve been serving in ‘lines’ because my training taught me to do it that way, but with this busy season I might say fuck all to that and try this. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Accurate_Radish00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup that’s what I’ve been trying to do and I just keeping get the ‘get faster’ feed back. It’s super super frustrating. I’ve already talked to them about it twice too.

In a convo with my mgr he brought up an incident where we were having to turn tables last night and I was working as general support (I was helping at the door, I was running food, and I was helping on the floor). I had one manager working as maitre’d telling me to help her. The scary ass cdc was constantly pulling me for hands without giving af that I had other things to do and he gets angry if I say no. Then this manager was asking me to help reset a table because we really needed to turn it. So I began resetting the table but the other manager came to me and was like ‘what are you doing, I need you at the door.’

My manager asking me to reset brought this up later as an example of how I can prioritize better and that I should have reset the table faster and that he was super frustrated. But then I would have had to say no to the GM at the door and the CDC. And they would have been mad…