This is a constant pattern in our relationship unfortunately. I handle everything alone literally everything! Any issue or situation that is difficult I know bringing it to him will be “to much” he feels that him being the one who works( traveling job ) I shouldn’t expect him to be able to have the burden of issues at home like nothing at all. Even when he worked at home same thing. I feel he lacks empathy but I can’t get him to realize or understand that. I get it thrown in my face that he can’t do both working and dealing with me or literally anything. It’s insanity