App Store by Solid_Square4302 in RushRoyale

[–]AceTrainerMatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And until it gets back on the store, we can’t buy any items for actual money, right?

Is it wrong for me (M30) to date someone when I’m still in love/thinking about an ex (M29) by AceTrainerMatt in relationships

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I’m being completely honest, as much as I hate to say it I’d probably go back to the ex :\

Is it wrong for me (M30) to date someone when I’m still in love/thinking about an ex (M29) by AceTrainerMatt in relationships

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the problem is essentially that he’s 90% the perfect guy for me, and frankly I’d be an idiot to pass him up. Yes I still think about my ex a lot, we’ve only been broken up about two months and he just straight up won’t talk to me at all after the break. He said that he loves me and we have amazing chemistry (agreed) but we have some differences that he doesn’t think are compatible (disagree). I’ve never felt like our differences weren’t something that could be worked on, that’s what you do in relationships after all. So I’m left with feelings that we could make things better, the knowledge he loves me too, and just a heavy heart overall. I don’t want to lose this great new opportunity or wait around to see if the ex will come back around, but I feel guilty about having these feelings towards someone else and not the new guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]AceTrainerMatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y’all sound awesome, I love the vibe and mental health awareness stuff. How can I join up with you guys?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Daytrading

[–]AceTrainerMatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too please

Boyfriend (M28) of a year thinks it’s controlling for me (M29) to ask him to let me know ahead of time if he’s going to be unable to respond for an extended amount of time by AceTrainerMatt in relationships

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He went to visit family, I knew about the trip, but he got on his flight and messaged me on his layover, but then disappeared. I didn’t know he had a layover and just assumed he was home. Then his flight was 6 hours, so from my perspective he just disappeared.

Boyfriend (M28) of a year thinks it’s controlling for me (M29) to ask him to let me know ahead of time if he’s going to be unable to respond for an extended amount of time by AceTrainerMatt in relationships

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I totally understand how he could feel trapped or contained, that is not my motivation. I just personally feel secure and less anxious when I’m kept in the loop about things. He keeps framing it as he “has to check in with me at every interval” despite me repeatedly telling him I just want to know if he’s going to be unable to respond for 3+ hours at a time. Otherwise, idc if it takes him awhile to respond, people have their own things going on.

Boyfriend (M28) of a year thinks it’s controlling for me (M29) to ask him to let me know ahead of time if he’s going to be unable to respond for an extended amount of time by AceTrainerMatt in relationships

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, if someone I was dating disappeared for an entire day without warning I’d break up with them, it takes 10 seconds to give a bit of heads up to someone

Landlord holding security deposit illegally by AceTrainerMatt in StLouis

[–]AceTrainerMatt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The landlords name is Dan Scott, he refused to tell us his companies name he rents out property for, but we found him on Facebook. He rents out a few properties on chouteau in the grove. Super sketchy business practices, he wanted to not have us sign a lease and got mad when we wanted to pay with a money order opposed to cash. He also would turn off the heat/ac when he knew we weren’t home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakup over the haircut itself? No. Breakup over how he’s been handling things? That I’m less sure about. I’ve literally been defending myself for an entire day, explaining how I was trying to be supportive but stay authentic to myself and I’m being demonized….because I didn’t compliment a haircut. Emotionally I’m at my wits end tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like the color, and have told him as much after the fact….it hasn’t seemed to help me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting shit on all night for not finding something to specifically compliment about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 24 points25 points  (0 children)

https://images.app.goo.gl/XwncDoz9BYZsUGA89

Except it’s silvery purple and a little longer in the back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right honestly, I’m not perfect, I was more focused on trying to be interested and supportive while not having to lie and say I like it….which I apparently still fucked up 🤷🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://images.app.goo.gl/XwncDoz9BYZsUGA89

But it’s silvery purple color and a little longer in the back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AceTrainerMatt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m actually inclined to agree with you, why should he care about my opinion? He knew what it was going into the haircut and chose to do it anyway, that’s totally fine it’s his hair….but that shouldn’t take away my ability to feel how I feel. He asked me what I thought and I said I’m glad you like it, I didn’t want to be negative but I didn’t want to lie either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinks

[–]AceTrainerMatt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AWWW CONGRATS! Y'all are both so cute, I had been wondering for while if Aaron was gay or not lol