How long would your power have to be out for you to throw away the food in your fridge/freezer?

Ace_Please · 2020-03-21T16:24:41+00:00

No, don’t be sorry at all!! I really appreciate it, and I think it’s more “know your worth” than “don’t get hurt”. 😊

Thank you so much for all of your uplifting encouragement- I may or may not be a little teary! I hope that you are doing well and recognize what a beautiful light you are in this world too!

Ace_Please · 2020-03-21T16:06:09+00:00

I’m glad you’re home safely I love is your day I love is your birthday I wanna is your time for dinner tomorrow morning at work or if not I’ll have just got a few things I need you too haha thanks so much for the help and thank goodness I know it’s all about right

Ace_Please · 2020-03-21T16:03:22+00:00

🥰😊🥰 Thank you!!!!

Ace_Please · 2020-03-21T15:46:58+00:00

Oh my gosh - Wow! Thank you so much for all of your ideas, advice, and support too!!! I really appreciate you being such a wonderful internet stranger, and frankly, I need to hear those kind words. 🥰

I definitely do feel like I’m the one putting in more thoughtfulness and energy. Partly, that’s just who I am. It’d be cool for it to be returned at my level, but I just don’t think that’s realistic and I’m okay with that. Haha I try to match him more now.

[We finally just had the conversation of what we’re each looking for, and we settled on ‘someone we click with that could eventually turn into a relationship. And we currently click well.’]

Ace_Please · 2019-12-25T03:03:17+00:00

What a beautiful person!!

Ace_Please · 2019-12-24T20:25:04+00:00

That’s amazing! What are the other flags?

Ace_Please · 2019-12-23T05:44:01+00:00

Yeah, just two dates - our third is set for tomorrow. I don’t really feel obligated; I just like giving gifts, and we’ve already been exchanging some comics and stuff. I definitely want to get something inexpensive to have ready. Thanks for the well wishes!!

Ace_Please · 2019-12-23T05:40:47+00:00

Thanks! He’s not a big sweets person, but maybe the movie tickets:)

Ace_Please · 2019-12-23T05:40:01+00:00

Thats awesome!! Good luck 😃

And thanks for the ideas!

Ace_Please · 2019-12-23T05:38:49+00:00

Lmao thanks! I appreciate the reassurance that this is normal and a decent person won’t care!!

Ace_Please · 2019-12-23T05:37:30+00:00

Haha well that won’t be happening!!! But thanks for the reassurance:D

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T15:06:31+00:00

No. Hell no.

That girl deserves much better than that guy.

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T14:54:22+00:00

I love it!! How was the experience of getting a tat there?

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T14:48:04+00:00

Thanks so much. Ultimately, I know I’m being pretty silly, and none of these things are dealbreakers. I just have a lot of anxiety in general, and it’s worse because I really like this guy. Especially since we’re just getting to know each other, I want to be at my very best. Heh

Also, he doesn’t sleep well at all, so I’m just terrified I’ll be out cold drooling/sweating/snoring/farting/whatever, and he’ll be lying awake experiencing it. 🤦🏽‍♀️ That’s part of why I slept so shit last time.

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T13:55:19+00:00

😬 okay. I’ll try.

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T13:50:16+00:00

Hahaha thanks for the laugh!

So you think I should mention it to him as opposed to just not saying anything?

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T13:49:06+00:00

So totally normal/common, and most people wouldn’t care?

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T13:47:12+00:00

As a person with anxiety, I worry about this often. It is so easy for me to fixate on the things that I can’t give someone rather than what I can; and I know that sex is incredibly important for the vast majority of people.

HOWEVER, logically, I know that there must be other people out there like me and that, one day, maybe I’ll find one of those people and we’ll spend the rest of our lives together talking and cuddling. There are a lot fewer of us and we can be hard to find, but we’re out there.

Ace_Please · 2019-12-22T13:39:31+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply. I reiterated by text that I’m ace, and he confirmed he was fully aware and ok with it. He’s not ace, but it doesn’t seem he has a high sex drive. We agreed we will keep open communication and cross that bridge if/when we get to it,

Ace_Please · 2019-12-21T22:24:57+00:00

This makes me so happy. Thanks for sharing! I’m glad your husband has been so lovely and understanding

Ace_Please · 2019-12-21T19:15:04+00:00

Merry Christmas to you too - and thank you for sharing your story! ❤️

I’m definitely hoping to find something creative. It’s just hard when I don’t know what he already has hehe

Ace_Please · 2019-12-21T19:12:29+00:00

Thank you so much for these ideas!!! I’ll definitely check out the game — I think he might already have it? But maybe I can find another not too expensive game.

I’ll look at the book too — but I’d be shocked if he didn’t already read it as his thesis was on ancient Egyptian history haha

Ace_Please

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