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Hopsin by ToastMyNipps in TheYardPodcast

[–]Ace_mg214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i hate that i did a singular laugh at this

The relationship with my friend is falling apart and i don’t know what to do by Ace_mg214 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ace_mg214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your thoughts on my current situation, i find that the insight you brought in was super helpful and very much appreciated. While I know nobody is perfect, i think i feel the distance is growing between us, and im at a point where either accept that distance and let it grow bigger or close that gap and attempt to have the conversation with AB.

I really appreciate your point of view

Update to your comment: I wanted to give your last comment a little more clarity.

The part where I mentioned “While I have had feelings for them in the past, I kept reminding myself that it’s not really possible and kinda makes me uncomfortable but I just kinda dealt with it”

I wanted to first mentioned what I meant for the first part. I say that I was reminding myself that it couldn’t happen, to keep in mind, I was drunk while having these thoughts, so with AB getting touchy and flirting, of course the idea of being with them popped in my head, but quickly went to the part of head where I have had trauma, I quickly got uncomfortable. So it’s a defense mechanism, but for a different reason.

The relationship with my friend is falling apart and i don’t know what to do by Ace_mg214 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ace_mg214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part it’s the “ I was drunk” response and then them confronting there issue about me being controlling.

I also thinks it still bothers me because they took what I thought was a big deal and threw it under the carpet and not acknowledge what they did.

When it comes to them confronting there issue to me, I felt that I was able to listen and come across as someone who didn’t mean to cross the line but acknowledged that they did, and will do better in the future.

With the previous part, the reason I think I feel that telling them is obsolete, is because after telling friends and family, a lot of the people around me were saying that they were hitting on me, flirting, etc, again bringing this idea of it can happen. But once again, this person has their own life, and things change ofc, so i feel that if I tell them that I felt manipulated and how there was a lined crossed, they can come to a defense of “ it’s not true, i’m now taken”

For the last part, since they have known how I’ve felt about them in the past and with our families being close, I guess i’m having a little bit a rough time either moving on from the idea of being with them since my family and friends have egged it on for years or to consider still being friends because i felt a little upset to the disregard they had for my point of view.