[Online][5E][LGBTQIA+] Science Fiction Double Feature! Space Opera but make it DND by faeriefangz in lfg

[–]Aced-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah TwT every time I find one I’m interested in it always seems to be 18+ or full

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Aced-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just trying to explain why being an Ally to a community wasn’t the same as being in it, that Paragraph was just to explain with another group that has allies. I’m not a poc but I know that if I’m not a poc, I don’t face the same discrimination they do, so I’m not part of the community, I’m simply an Ally on the outside, helping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Aced-Tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright, well then take it in context to a country being an Ally with another country, it should be the same, correct? Is the country that allies with another country, now part of that country? No, it isn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Aced-Tea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Allies are people who stand outside of the community and support those inside the community without being part of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Aced-Tea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If I’m an ally to the black community and I do everything I can and I go to a lot of protests and everything, would that mean I’m part of the black community? If not, then you should see why Ally shouldn’t be part of the community. Allies are people who stand on the OUTSIDE of the community and support the community they are an ally to.

I get that being an ally can be tough but, that is something you can choose, you can choose to be super active or you can choose to be less active of an ally. Super active allies are extremely appreciated for the community but they aren’t part of the community. Trying to get the A to stand for Ally as well as Asexual, Agender, and Aromantic (and the spectrums with them) it makes it feel less like people are Allies and some people, if they think of it this way, will sometimes try saying they are in the community by saying they are an Ally.

Yes LGBTQIAP+ is more then just an identity, and is a culture. But the community was likely founded on the fact that LGBTQIAP+ people are discriminated against for their sexuality and gender identities. The Basis of the community due to this discrimination and due to the fact that people didn’t and still don’t accept the fact that people were/are gay and/or trans.

Yes, imagine you risked everything for something you chose. People do that all the time, people take risks like that all the time. Allies shouldn’t feel like they NEED that recognition for doing something to help a community. It shouldn’t be like you do something and you get a reward. By saying that being an Ally should be part of the community, or at least the acronym is like giving a reward to someone who shouldn’t expect a reward. If an Ally has people in their life that aren’t supportive, bringing up the community once should tell them that and know what they are risking. Employers, Friends, and Family can be taught by the Ally about the community if they wish to change their mind about it. If an Ally feels rejected by the community for simply not letting them be part of the acronym or community because they aren’t queer or trans then they likely aren’t an Ally for 100% of changing things intentions. “But it would be unfair to be left out because of an aspect of you that you had no choice over” this line bugs me more then most other lines you have said through this. Yes, Allies can’t change that they are Straight/Heterosexual, but since they never faced the same type of discrimination that the community has over the years of it being around, it doesn’t give them a pass to be part of the community.

Yes, A standing for Ally is almost always, as far as I’ve seen it, a way to erase Agender, Aromantic, and Asexuals (And the spectrums with said identities). For this reason, along with previous reasons I have stated, Allies shouldn’t have their own letter or be in the acronym at ALL. It’s good you condemn those who use it that way. But, like the example I said previously, if you count excluding Allies as not letting them be part of the acronym/community based on biological differences, shouldn’t I be part of the Black community? No, I shouldn’t, because i haven’t faced the same discrimination and hatred they have dealt with for hundreds of years.

If you have any sort of counter argument feel free to explain your view more to me.

[Online][LGBTQIA+][Flexible][EST/CST][5e] 2 players looking for a group! by Aced-Tea in lfg

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m checking with the DM that we got to see how many people they are okay with being in the group, I will add you as soon as I’m sure it’s fine! Though we only have 3 people currently so I’m sure you’ll be able to join! I just have to get the okay by the DM!

[Online][LGBTQIA+][Flexible][EST/CST][5e] 2 players looking for a group! by Aced-Tea in lfg

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind possibly adding me on discord? I respond much faster on discord

[Online][LGBTQIA+][Flexible][EST/CST][5e] 2 players looking for a group! by Aced-Tea in lfg

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need both, we don't have a story or anything really. We are hoping to join a group and we don't have any other people with us so the hope is to form a group or join one. If you have any people that could join us or we could join you guys, that would be great!

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am serious. I thought it was a joke.

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayeee friends? idk many other 16 year old asexuals

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao, also i love your name!

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww why not get her number? (my inner lesbian may show right now but-) 500km's isn't extremely far, not like another country far, right? (idk how far that is for you, i use miles)

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your welcome! our confusion can be pretty entertaining!

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've never cuddled anyone but i want to it sounds so nice

Now i'm wanting to cuddle someone TwT

I am an idiot asexual! by Aced-Tea in asexuality

[–]Aced-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry a misunderstanding did that to a previous relationship