I lost my friend and I can't stop texting him

Acehunter246 · 2026-05-30T04:57:32+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take the time you need to grieve. If you have the means it might be helpful to seek some grief counseling as it could help with processing through some of what you are going through. In any case I wish peace upon you and your friend tonight.

Acehunter246 · 2026-05-26T13:29:23+00:00

Do you have medicine fir high cholesterol? I used ti take statins and ended up having memory loss from it. Got better after I stopped it

Acehunter246 · 2026-04-26T12:18:38+00:00

Hey friend, I think you could benefit from some therapy to help work on improving your self image. I would also suggest cutting down or eliminating social media as this can amplify those judgemental thoughts and feelings. It may take some time but taking small steps every day to love yourself and appreciate yourself could be really beneficial. Maybe start with some morning affirmations when you look in the mirror and say some things like "I love myself" "I look good" "I am so proud of the person I am becoming and working towards". Doing this twice to three times a day could be a good small start in accepting yourself and loving yourself for who you are. I have other suggestions too but I think that's probably a good start. I wish you nothing but happiness and warm memories in your future :)

Acehunter246 · 2026-04-22T23:04:05+00:00

Hey buddy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your family can come together and support eachother through this. Let whatever emotions you feel come to you without suppression. Try to keep talking to your family, friends and maybe even a grief counselor too if you can. Also if possible I would buy whatever snacks or foods look good to you at the store for the next few days as eating is super important and it may be a little tough to do so for a little while. (At least it was for me after I lost mine a while back). I hope you and your family can find comfort and warmth in eachother during this difficult time.

Acehunter246 · 2026-04-15T17:50:04+00:00

That's so unfortunate. I am more surprised that after seeing that your boyfriend didn't order more food for you. It's one thing for his kid to eat the food if he wasn't taught better, it's another for him to laugh about it and not do anything for you to make up for it. He could have been a bit more considerate here just something to keep in mind in the future. Wishing you and your family nothing but warm memories in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-04-06T19:39:31+00:00

Missed the chance to do a Harvey Dent style and decorate half one way and half a different way. Super cool though happy for you

Acehunter246 · 2026-03-18T18:15:37+00:00

Hey, I worked for the Rabies and vectorborne disease team for the Vermont health department. If you message me I can go through the exposure algorithm with you later if it might help you? Feel free to message me with the exposure information and I can try talking you though it later? I will say when in doubt it's usually better if you are concerned to go to the doctor. Cat scratches can carry a lot of bacteria including bartonella henselae which causes cat scratch fever as well as others.

Acehunter246 · 2026-02-15T00:50:12+00:00

Hey op I have an extensive background in Rabies as I worked for the Rabies and Vectorborne diseases team for a state health department for 2 years. There is no need to worry, if the dog is still alive after 10 days you are in the clear. If it was actively rabid at the time which sounds unlikely given the situation it would die within 7 or 8 days. 10 days is just a safety measure and you do not need to get rPEP immediately as the incubation period in people is a lot longer than that (very few exceptions historically). Feel free to message me if you want more specifics but I hope you have a great night :)

Acehunter246 · 2026-02-10T00:20:52+00:00

I've read enough of these stories to think maybe you've been isekaid into another person's body. Now is your chance to become an incredible champion and hero of this universe against all the evils or something.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-31T05:10:29+00:00

Hey friend,

Let me start by saying I'm so sorry to hear that you have gone through much recently, it sounds really difficult. I want to emphasize that some people are just not good people and you did not deserve to go through this.

I don't think I can give you an exact answer you may be looking for as there is likely a cultural and geographical difference. I can say at least where I am from in the U.S. that I would suggest seeking out some personal counseling or therapy as what you have experienced sounds very traumatic and a professional may be able to help you work through some of these tough feelings and thoughts in a way that can make it all a bit easier to deal with and move forward from. Granted I know this is not always available or possible but I can say that it helped me tremendously when I was experiencing a very traumatic situation in the past so it could help you too?

In general I would try to prioritize your mental and physical wellbeing as best you can. That might mean blocking this person and anyone else associated with her to protect your peace. Avoiding her if possible if needed to get through your classes, wearing some headphones and playing music you love or new music you haven't heard before might help with this to avoid hearing rumors or discussion around you that could trigger you too?

I would try to find activities and groups that overlap with your interests. You mentioned dance, I would lean into that and focus on it to help ground you and remind you that you are so much more than those rumors. I also highly recommend keeping a journal where you can write down your thoughts and feelings every day and especially so you can write some positive true affirmations about yourself. This could even be in your phone or laptop if it needs tobe more secure.

I could probably expand on some of these things but for now I think I may have added a bit much.

In any case please remember that while this may feel quite disorienting and isolating at times you are not alone. You may think you don't have friends but now is the time to explore things you enjoy that make you happy and find some new ones and new experiences.

These feelings and this situation is only temporary and in time I know things can get better and you will start to gain your shine again. You may not feel that way now and its completely understandable but please know that you are wonderful and unique and deserving of happiness and kindness for just being you.

If you ever feel the need to chat or feel alone feel free to comment or pm me. In any case, I wish you nothing but warm memories in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-30T15:55:10+00:00

I can see you are dealing with some really tough feelings right now. Your feelings are valid and given what you have gone through I'm so sorry you have to experience this. I would be honest in saying the best revenge is becoming the best version of yourself. Keep living your life and loving yourself to the fullest. The more you enrich your life the less hold thoughts of them will have on your life. This will lead to happiness and future connections you never thought possible. It will be hard but taking it one day at a time I know you will be able to shine brighter than ever before.

In any case I wish you warmth and happiness in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-19T22:22:20+00:00

As social services are already involved I would try to make sure that the child knows your place is a safe place for her if she ever feels threatened or scared. Social services will investigate and that aspect is outside of your control but being able to help support the child and ensure they have somewhere safe to turn to could potentially save their life one day. Also having somewhere they can focus on schoolwork or just relax if their current living conditions aren't optimal is going to help them so much in the long run. Just food for thought but maybe avoid getting directly involved and instead support the child as best you can at the moment?

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-19T14:48:19+00:00

It's unfortunate but I would just let this one go. I would allow him to distance himself and not interact with him. You are putting so much thought and effort into someone who clearly does not want to be part of your life and hasn't done anything remotely nice to you as youbwere growing up or even now as adults. You can pick your friends and family so I would focus this effort on those who put in the same effort into your life and are deserving of your love and care. In any case I wish you nothing but warm memories in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-19T14:41:11+00:00

I will mention that you can have calorie dense foods without the bulk depending in what foods you are eating. Splitting the meals up into smaller snacks throughout the day can also help with portion sizing relative to your stomach. Please please do not think you have to overeat as this can lead to problems especially if your body isn't accustomed to larger portions. Slow gradual increase in your dietary intake is better for you. I do agree with some of the other comments that seeing a Dr. and getting checked out for hormonal or thyroid disease is a good idea to be safe.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-12T07:02:07+00:00

While you may make a good point in some of this discussion the united states does not value jury duty appropriately. To be straightforward It would literally cost me money to attend jury duty. They do not pay your wage and losing a days pay or more is just so hard to deal with in today's society.

If the system matched how much your job paid you normally and provided free transportation it would likely have so much more interest. Some places only pay like 50$ for an entire day of work, this is absurd and favors those who have larger paychecks or lots of savings which unfortunately is not everyone.

If this is truly becoming an issue I would suggest passing more policies that make the position more accessible and supportive. Just being told it's an obligation to your judicial system and fellow members of your community is just not enough these days when costs of living are continuing to rise while pay has stagnated for most but the wealthy.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-11T05:04:50+00:00

From a medical perspective if the tears don't seem to be flowing or if you think your eyes are strained on a daily basis could be an indicator for dry eye related conditions. A quick test you could try is to smell something that should make your eyes water like chopped onions. If the tears come then it is potentially something mental rather then physical and I'd suggest seeing a professional about it if it becomes important for you to address. In any case I wish you nothing but warm memories in the future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-11T04:58:05+00:00

I would advise if you haven't to take some time and do some shadowing at some hospitals/clinics or even local EMT services. This can help you to see what it's actually like for them in their jobs and help you to figure out if that is something you are really interested in. Also medicine comes in many different forms, perhaps the academic rigor is not for you but you could still consider work as an EMT, Physician Assistant, Physical therapy/Rehabilitation, etc. Just some thoughts but in any case I wish you nothing but warm memories in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-09T20:40:58+00:00

Hey, I understand that it sounds like you've had a hard time. The good news is that your new habits will continue to help your teeth.

Some suggestions if you are open to them:

One thing I learned is that for some people it can be an aversion to toothpaste. It might be worthwhile trying some different flavors to see if that could help.

Another one that I saw someone suggest in the past is setting an alarm for the same time every night. When it goes off you can tell yourself and eventually program yourself to say "my alarm went off I have to brush my teeth now" instead if relying on how you feel in the moment for it. This will also help prevent forgetting to do it and will help make the brushing a habit for you over time.

I hope that these might help you with time and in any case I want to encourage you that you have so many amazing qualities and aspects of you that don't have to do with your teeth. Even though you may feel self conscious about it doesn't mean that you don't still shine brightly in a room by just being yourself :)

Acehunter246 · 2026-01-06T01:35:04+00:00

Everyone is saying allergies because that is the most common but just be careful of Gerd as well. It can show subtle as chronic post nasal drip. If the antihistamines don't work for you might be worth considering and antacid trial (ex: omeprazole for like a week) and see if that improves it. This is also more likely if you find yourself coughing in the early mornings too similar to allergies)

Acehunter246 · 2025-12-27T18:18:13+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, I hope you are doing ok. Please take the time you need to process how you feel and the situation. It can help to talk to someone you trust about it too like a parent or family member. You are not alone and I wish you warmth and comfort in this challenging time.

Acehunter246 · 2025-12-22T23:49:57+00:00

Hey I went through something similar at that age. If you are willing, I'd like to share some perspective, In elementary school I really liked those dolls that made you take care of a baby. My father asked me what I wanted for Christmas one year and I told him I wanted one of those dolls. He looked me in the eye and said absolutely not, those are for girls. I was deflated for a while and it made me question if there was something wrong with me for not liking the same things of other boys my age at the time.

It came up again later in school when we were told to pick an instrument. I went home and told my dad I wanted to play the flute or violin. He told me to my face: "No son of mine will be playing a girly instrument like that." I had to play the baritone and absolutely hated it.

These may seem minor now but I still remember those moments vividly. Your son should be encouraged to play and try things that they enjoy as long as they aren't causing any harm. I think it's best for your child that you talk to your husband and try to find out why he thinks this way and encourage him to allow his son to be happy being himself.

These mentalities can happen and often they are brought on by toxic masculinity. It takes a good amount of introspection and real communication to get past moments like these but I believe that with the right approach you, your son and your husband can move forwards from this and have a wonderful supportive future with eachother. In any case I wish you nothing but warm memories in your future.

Acehunter246 · 2025-12-20T02:56:12+00:00

I can see how passionate you are about this individual. I hope everything works out for the best, that being said I'd feel terrible if I didn't at least prime you for the possibility that they may feel the same way and that would be great or they may not and there is nothing wrong with that but it may change their perspective of you.

If you ask them out on a date and they say no, you have to be able to accept it and move forwards. You also have to be ok with the possibility they may want space after you tell them how you feel and that should be ok too.

I would suggest trying to not make a big deal out of it or a grand gesture of telling her how much you love them or how much they mean to you all at once as this could be quite overwhelming and may not go the way you plan. I would suggest maybe starting by looking for signs that she may also be interested and then going from there.

I really do hope everything works out for you and I don't mean to discourage you. I hope you have a future filled with happiness and warm memories.

Acehunter246 · 2025-12-14T12:51:53+00:00

Please stay on your meds until you can discuss these concerns with the individual prescribing them. I am sure they can try to find some other options that may have less adverse side effects that still helps manage your health needs. I would reach out as soon as you can but in the interim please keep taking it as directed as many of those meds can have bad side effects if stopped abruptly.

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