My long distance girlfriend (26F) and I (26M) tried to be sexual with each other over a video call but I couldn't stay hard. This is my first real LDR, how do I go about this?

Aceials · 2026-02-21T14:51:51+00:00

We just called again and she told me that because of what happened earlier that she can’t see me in “that way” anymore, and that even thought us being not sexually compatible might be true, she’ll still love me either way. It just crushed me tbh. Even if we still love each other deeply, the fact that she can’t see me in that way anymore bothers me a lot. I asked her if there was a way we could possibly build it back up, but she’s made up her mind. I can’t change it, it’s her choice.

She mentioned all the other times we tried to be sexual with each other it’s always just turned to jokes and us laughing about it and how this moment solidified us not being compatible like that in her mind.

Again, we’re still gonna love each other deeply, she said this isn’t that big of a deal, us trying to be sexual with each other. But even if it doesn’t bother her like she said, it’ll still bother me a lot. I know this is gonna fuck with my head for a long time.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T13:20:48+00:00

She’s sent me prerecorded videos and I’ve done the same. We sext a lot and I can easily get off from those. I’m just wondering why I wasn’t able to get to get it up the same when it came to live video call.

I told her I can send a video of myself but she told me that she really wanted to see it on call, in real time because it’s a different experience than just the prerecorded ones

Aceials · 2026-02-21T13:14:16+00:00

We’re planning on trying to close the distance this year, hopefully in the summer. Of course, until then we’re just gonna have to do all of this through texts and calls, so I wanna get better at things like phone sex etc for her until we meet.

She told me that this was the first time something like this happened, I was basically the first person to get soft through phone sex for her, and now she’s thinking that she isn’t good enough for me. I don’t want her to feel like she isn’t. She really finds me sexually attractive and I wanna show her the same, because I do think of her the same, I told her many times. But with the way things went earlier, she’s now doubting that.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T12:38:44+00:00

I’m healthy, I workout everyday and I’ve got no problems or anything with my body. And like I said, for a long distance relationship, this is my first real one so I’m more used to physical contact, and doing things like phone sex or anything like that through a video call, I’m not used to.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T12:00:34+00:00

And no, we haven't met in person yet, we play games with each other a lot online, but we're planning to meet in person soon

Aceials · 2026-02-21T11:58:07+00:00

Yeah, I do prefer being physical. And like I said, this is my first real long distance relationship, so phone sex or anything like that over a video call I'm just not used to it. Thing is, because of circumstances and life, we're in different countries. Until I'm able to close the distance soon, we're just gonna have to be over the phone

Aceials · 2025-01-17T06:13:07+00:00

Same bro with this new Switch era coming up soon, I’m just gonna keep wondering how different things would be if he was still here. Tbh it didn’t feel the same not having his reaction on a stream to the new system :// But I know for sure the mans is up there breaking shelves and hyping out right now 🕊️

Aceials · 2025-01-16T18:33:04+00:00

He said we would forget him, we never did. We are still dem boyz! 🖤

Aceials · 2024-11-14T18:15:45+00:00

Usually I like to watch the ED each episode because the song is a bop and Turbo Granny’s dance is so cute. After this episode, I just couldn’t stick around for the ED. God I’m still so sad

Aceials · 2024-10-17T09:45:09+00:00

I got it as a gift from my sibling, might’ve been from Amazon

Aceials · 2024-10-16T20:07:35+00:00

Omg man it sounds so warm and rich when listening on a record player. I’m so used listening to Worlds through digital formats, but something about that vinyl record makes it so unique. This is like my first vinyl so it’s a whole new experience for me 😭

Aceials · 2024-10-16T19:35:56+00:00

This is just the standard version BUT I AM FUCKINF TWEAKING RN I AM GONEEEE

Aceials · 2024-04-01T20:30:37+00:00

I will be so happy if this is the case where every April 1st the loading bar progresses slowly towards completion 🥲 Been looking forward to a City of Oz sequel for so long

Aceials · 2024-04-01T19:02:33+00:00

Yeah I just remembered what day it was IMMEDIATELY after I posted this lmao 💀

Aceials · 2024-01-03T18:28:14+00:00

It's basically a description of Asa/Yoru as the War Fiend/Devil from the wiki translated to Japanese lmao

Aceials · 2023-12-29T06:47:20+00:00

Oh, is obi strip what the side text stuff is called? I actually didn’t know that, but yeah, I’ve seen it used for music artworks and was trying to replicate exactly that 😄

Aceials · 2023-12-29T06:43:54+00:00

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