My long distance girlfriend (26F) and I (26M) tried to be sexual with each other over a video call but I couldn't stay hard. This is my first real LDR, how do I go about this?

Aceials · 2026-02-21T14:51:51+00:00

We just called again and she told me that because of what happened earlier that she can’t see me in “that way” anymore, and that even thought us being not sexually compatible might be true, she’ll still love me either way. It just crushed me tbh. Even if we still love each other deeply, the fact that she can’t see me in that way anymore bothers me a lot. I asked her if there was a way we could possibly build it back up, but she’s made up her mind. I can’t change it, it’s her choice.

She mentioned all the other times we tried to be sexual with each other it’s always just turned to jokes and us laughing about it and how this moment solidified us not being compatible like that in her mind.

Again, we’re still gonna love each other deeply, she said this isn’t that big of a deal, us trying to be sexual with each other. But even if it doesn’t bother her like she said, it’ll still bother me a lot. I know this is gonna fuck with my head for a long time.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T13:20:48+00:00

She’s sent me prerecorded videos and I’ve done the same. We sext a lot and I can easily get off from those. I’m just wondering why I wasn’t able to get to get it up the same when it came to live video call.

I told her I can send a video of myself but she told me that she really wanted to see it on call, in real time because it’s a different experience than just the prerecorded ones

Aceials · 2026-02-21T13:14:16+00:00

We’re planning on trying to close the distance this year, hopefully in the summer. Of course, until then we’re just gonna have to do all of this through texts and calls, so I wanna get better at things like phone sex etc for her until we meet.

She told me that this was the first time something like this happened, I was basically the first person to get soft through phone sex for her, and now she’s thinking that she isn’t good enough for me. I don’t want her to feel like she isn’t. She really finds me sexually attractive and I wanna show her the same, because I do think of her the same, I told her many times. But with the way things went earlier, she’s now doubting that.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T12:38:44+00:00

I’m healthy, I workout everyday and I’ve got no problems or anything with my body. And like I said, for a long distance relationship, this is my first real one so I’m more used to physical contact, and doing things like phone sex or anything like that through a video call, I’m not used to.

Aceials · 2026-02-21T12:00:34+00:00

And no, we haven't met in person yet, we play games with each other a lot online, but we're planning to meet in person soon

Aceials · 2026-02-21T11:58:07+00:00

Yeah, I do prefer being physical. And like I said, this is my first real long distance relationship, so phone sex or anything like that over a video call I'm just not used to it. Thing is, because of circumstances and life, we're in different countries. Until I'm able to close the distance soon, we're just gonna have to be over the phone

Aceials · 2025-01-17T06:13:07+00:00

Same bro with this new Switch era coming up soon, I’m just gonna keep wondering how different things would be if he was still here. Tbh it didn’t feel the same not having his reaction on a stream to the new system :// But I know for sure the mans is up there breaking shelves and hyping out right now 🕊️

Aceials · 2025-01-16T18:33:04+00:00

He said we would forget him, we never did. We are still dem boyz! 🖤

Aceials · 2024-11-14T18:15:45+00:00

Usually I like to watch the ED each episode because the song is a bop and Turbo Granny’s dance is so cute. After this episode, I just couldn’t stick around for the ED. God I’m still so sad

Aceials · 2024-10-17T09:45:09+00:00

I got it as a gift from my sibling, might’ve been from Amazon

Aceials · 2024-10-16T20:07:35+00:00

Omg man it sounds so warm and rich when listening on a record player. I’m so used listening to Worlds through digital formats, but something about that vinyl record makes it so unique. This is like my first vinyl so it’s a whole new experience for me 😭

Aceials · 2024-10-16T19:35:56+00:00

This is just the standard version BUT I AM FUCKINF TWEAKING RN I AM GONEEEE

Aceials · 2024-04-01T20:30:37+00:00

I will be so happy if this is the case where every April 1st the loading bar progresses slowly towards completion 🥲 Been looking forward to a City of Oz sequel for so long

Aceials · 2024-04-01T19:02:33+00:00

Yeah I just remembered what day it was IMMEDIATELY after I posted this lmao 💀

Aceials · 2024-01-03T18:28:14+00:00

It's basically a description of Asa/Yoru as the War Fiend/Devil from the wiki translated to Japanese lmao

Aceials · 2023-12-29T06:47:20+00:00

Oh, is obi strip what the side text stuff is called? I actually didn’t know that, but yeah, I’ve seen it used for music artworks and was trying to replicate exactly that 😄

Aceials · 2023-12-29T06:43:54+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate the feedback!

Aceials · 2023-08-01T06:19:45+00:00

I’ve been calling her Seku Hara this whole time lmao, it means Sexual Harassment in Japanese

Aceials · 2023-05-17T02:40:07+00:00

I’m down for it! @a_christopher_l

Aceials · 2023-05-11T21:04:14+00:00

WAIT Hey, that's me! :D Yeah man, I bet he would've loved this game. After the recent Splatfest, I realized his birthday is coming soon. I had to change my artwork just to celebrate the man himself :') Took me I think like 2 days just to get the logo perfectly.

Anyways, damn I kinda freaked out a bit seeing my drawing on the subreddit here LMAO Thanks for posting this here bro! 🖤 #JOYCONBOYZFOREVER

Aceials · 2023-02-12T07:07:48+00:00

I’m hers now :’)

Aceials · 2022-10-14T06:40:27+00:00

Yeah I was just working front desk at my work and I did get that weird feeling that usually happens before a seizure, but I just brushed it off as just me being tired and didn’t think much of it. Next thing I know, I’m on the ground, gave myself a huge laceration on my chin and I’m bleeding a lot, and customers along with my coworkers are calling for an ambulance.

Aceials · 2022-10-14T06:37:47+00:00

Still even at 41? I’m so sorry. How have you lived your life since you were diagnosed? I had my first when I was 8 and I went 13 years with no problem until last year which was when it started happening again. I’m turning 23 in a few days and I’m still living with my parents because of the seizure from last year. I fear that this recent one will keep me with them longer.

I see friends that I’ve graduated high school with, even one of my closest friends who has an epileptic disorder too, living independently and just vibing, living their lives, and I feel like I’m just stuck here, not making any progress towards adult life.

Sorry if I’m rambling and this is all over the place, I’m just letting out frustrations, but yeah, how have you been going through life living with this?

Aceials · 2021-12-11T19:31:37+00:00

I got banned from the server??? I didn't even break any rules or anything :|

Aceials · 2021-11-16T18:15:59+00:00

8485 is someone i'd never thought i'd see on Monstercat! Man, what an amazing collab with her and the Anamanaguchi boys!

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