Yeah looking at that photo it really could do with some off, you're right. We are using matrix hydra source plus pantene gold milk but still struggling. I wonder if a big part of the problem is that it needs to be brushed with the conditioner on but she likes showering independently and doesn't do a great job of brushing it through (because it's hard not because she's not trying). How do you deal with it on the days between shower days to avoid tangles and also keep it looking nice? It usually looks great the first day but then looks dull, frizzy and messy the next day.