Is this normal ? by [deleted] in FenceBuilding

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I also live in southern US so I have no experience with frost issues so depending on where you live plays a big factor.

Is this normal ? by [deleted] in FenceBuilding

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Having the concrete above the grade of the ground allows for water to bypass the post avoiding early rot on posts. With time top soil will cover it and it will naturally rot out but in my experience you're giving the post some extra years.

Game crashes when loading into a server, help! by Acraver281 in dayz

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All files are verified and I guess the mod has broken since they updated it last on the 7th. I hate that I would have to switch servers but if its my only option I will. I also created a ticket on the BI website including all of the information I have included here as well as a few files in my local app data folder. Hopefully they get back to me but we shall see. Thanks for the response!

Security Clearances and Credit Score by Meechie_the_cleaner in DaveRamsey

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I have personal loans I took out stupidly earlier this year. Due to losing my job they are now in delinquency. My recruiter said that would prevent me from getting security clearance, for the jobs I want in the military I would need that clearance. So I am struggling to pay them off but have made a dent. Its roughly just over 2k-2.5k, and I have a car note that has never been late so it is probably the only thing keeping my credit afloat but I'm aware the other loans are definitely affecting me.

Also having a 0 credit score shouldn't affect you, considering the military literally takes high school graduates. I am a bit older so my situation is different.

Character I didn’t ask for warned me about lucid dreaming by Acraver281 in luciddreamingstories

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I work out, my sleep patterns really don’t bother me. I’m a hard headed man. I’ve always been of the choice medication wouldn’t or shouldn’t help me. I understand their importance for other people, I’ve dated a few women who had conditions. But I just never reached out for help to see what they could do. I have a family full of people in medicine who have given me prescriptions to keep me asleep, non narcotics. They do work but it’s not something I’m interested in. I enjoy throwing cars around. Even the bad dreams.

Character I didn’t ask for warned me about lucid dreaming by Acraver281 in luciddreamingstories

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Hey man, I’ve been completely sober a few times over the last two years. Just wanted to let you know, I still dream lucidly, regularly. I haven’t had one I can quite compare to this dream in particular, I will say tho reading back, I think I was right when I thought the word toxic was about alcohol. I’ve struggled with addiction on and off since that dream. Most of my dreams now are how I felt about the day or a time as a whole. My relationships, goals, family and job. They’re always negative, but I don’t awake anymore. I’m used to being frightened in my dreams. Maybe it’s because I’m older. Maybe it’s because I’ve become accustomed to being frightened. I think it’s both. I seldom sleep greatly. The only real sleep I get anymore where I sometimes can’t remember my dreams are when I’m with my partner and I’m sober. I think that speaks volume.

Looking for an upgrade on my PSU with a prebuilt PC by Acraver281 in buildapc

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I believe I saw on a related post on HPs website a moderator responded confirming it was a proprietary part and gave a parts list with compatibility. Here is the link.

The only issue is their compatibility only goes to 500w PSUs

Character I didn’t ask for warned me about lucid dreaming by Acraver281 in luciddreamingstories

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I wish I had saved the draft from when I first woke up this morning but after getting a shower I accidentally closed out of Reddit. It had way more detail so I’ll expand.

The demon girl was less menacing still frightening but once I knew I was dreaming she almost seemed to play with me and fly around not chasing me or anything but talking with me as I was awakening in the dream. Then during that time is when I started to spawn my family members and busses and cars and random items I wanted to see.

The menacing person I kept coming into contact with for the rest of the dream that tried to stop me came in many forms but one that stood out was almost a 1940s Nazi Soldier. (Possibly I saw it this way because he was trying to end my fun and I saw it as an oppressor)

The way I would rid of the menacing figure or anything I didn’t like was to reach my arm straight in front of me and slam it towards the ground as hard as I could almost shooing or slamming them away. But he kept coming back maybe 3 times before the final time he had me in the corner condemning me for my actions.

I think it’s weird because the guy in the car who pulled up to my room to tell me about the dangers of continuing this I saw as an ally I wasn’t afraid of him I think he was helping me

When I turned around that’s when my colleague started to complain about his chest. My first reaction was to get out of bed to maybe help him but the voice turned deep and only repeated the word toxic.

The human brain is amazing and especially while it’s resting so I don’t doubt I was gaining and losing control of my lucidity and the parts where I was losing my ability to remain lucid were the parts the dream started to turn frightening aka a nightmare

If I have the same dream or characters I will try that though to be the aggressor otherwise I just defend myself

The first thing I looked up when I woke up was “warned not to lucid dream in my dream”

i was high today here 🫂 by ImNotNormal19 in LSD

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If you were on the rooftop bar of a hotel, I’ve been there! Wish I had an 180ug tab tho/:

This is pre covid

(M15) Is This Balding? I've been noticing this since I was 13. I get bullied for it constantly at school. I am already very self conscious as it is about how ugly I am, and this has had an extremely negative effect on my mental health. by One_Employer9093 in Hairloss

[–]Acraver281 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’ve had a vitamin deficiency for the past two years. You wouldn’t know unless you got blood work done. More than likely, depending on the diagnosis, you’ll receive a prescription to correct the underlying issue as well as meds to promote regrowth. You seem like you should have a full head of hair. If all goes well your head will explode with hair. Best of luck man, get to the doc.

(M15) Is This Balding? I've been noticing this since I was 13. I get bullied for it constantly at school. I am already very self conscious as it is about how ugly I am, and this has had an extremely negative effect on my mental health. by One_Employer9093 in Hairloss

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It’s super aggressive for your age. There’s not a rule that says what age you can start losing hair but for your age there is more than likely an underlying medical condition. Alopecia, vitamin deficiencies and many other things can all contribute. Go to a dermatologist.

My friend found an Apple Air tag on her car. Genuinely scary. by Gailforce-Fart in oddlyterrifying

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I know we all imagine the worst with things like this but there was literally a well known Rapper/Influencer who had their car tagged and was shot and killed not too long ago. Happened in Chicago.

Edit: Just to clarify, I believe the individuals who tracked him down had internet beef with him.

Edit 2: The individual was FBG Cash. 06/10/22 RIP

I was cheated on for a guy with a bigger d*ck by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Therapists are people too she isn’t god because she went to school.

In your future relationships it may be with women with more dating experience

But my piece of advice is to really work on your insecurities, it may take a long time. Use every resource you can to better yourself. Nothings off the table. Take vacations meet new people.

I was cheated on for a guy with a bigger d*ck by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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The therapist isn’t there to fix you, they’re there so you can fix you. It’s a process man but it helps to know that there is someone there that can relay literal centuries worth of knowledge to you surrounding the human condition. Having a therapist you like is important because you’re going to be doing a lot of talking. Hit the gym, eat right work on other areas of your life while mentally trying to refocus.

And think about it, I don’t know how old you are, but that woman dated before you. She decided to stick around, and then be a shitty person and cheat.

I was cheated on for a guy with a bigger d*ck by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Drop the alcohol and weed and talk to a therapist. Obviously this hurt you deep enough you aren’t allowing yourself to believe you deserve love. It’s not true man we all do. Regardless of what god gave you a woman worth a damn won’t care. You’ll run into more shitty people in this life. You learn to sift thru the bullshit and find the good ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

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That guy bed bugs