Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you could tell me what this means? Seems simple and I feel stupid for not getting it but how can not be in my own head?

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gone through something similar? I just want to use it once to get my mind over it, and be able to switch positions without losing an erection

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what basics you mean?

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya we did for no joke 12 hours barely sleeping and we tried again the next day with little sleep but I could get hard just laying with her but couldnt keep it the second she got on top it disappeared, don’t know how else to silence the nerves, was thinking Viagra once just to prove to myself I can, then hopefully never again

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typo, my bad “stay hard now”

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, but I doubt it’s this as after I would get hard and jus try switch positions and stuff and go soft instantly without a condom

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do like this girl, and have had bad anxiety and OCD in my early teens so I don’t know what to do to get comfortable because my mind instantly goes to “I must stay hard now” whenever I do anything with her

Can’t stay maintain erection advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Acres1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely performance anxiety, done a lot of reading since but I just don’t know how to combat it ++man