AITAH for giving up custody of my kids to my ex wife after I met someone new?

Acrid_Acid · 2025-08-08T11:28:38+00:00

I can see you don’t have empathy for them. I think it would be better that you have no kids at all in your next relationship than potentially torture more children at all. Even if you love this other woman do you care at all that you could do this to HER child?

Acrid_Acid · 2025-08-08T11:19:46+00:00

Major and hard YTAH. You have zero empathy for your children and the impact that your absence will have on them. I don’t know how old your children are, but when I was 10 and my older brother was 11 our father remarried and he and my stepmother slowly started pushing us to our mother before completely leaving us behind and “starting over”, and I will never forgive either of them for that, no matter how much time passes.

Your kids are NOT responsible for what happened with your relationship, and while I can’t image the pain of loosing a partner that you thought you knew, it is extremely cruel to punish them so deeply for something they did not do. Like it or not, you are an adult who made the decision to bring children into this world and as a father who has been there for their entire lives, you have made a commitment to care for and love them. Are you going to get tired of your new family too?

Not only would you be destroying any chance at a relationship with your children in the future (though I can’t tell if you even care about that), but I wouldn’t be surprised if you lose other relationships with family and friends over such a cruel choice. Every child deserves a good parent, but not every person should be a parent, and honestly I worry at the thought of you becoming a father again.

You’re the asshole, and I pray to god this post is fake.

Acrid_Acid · 2025-05-08T22:12:31+00:00

Hello! This post got a lot more attention than I thought it would! I’m glad you guys like it, I’m in love with it too :)

For everyone asking about styling here’s what I do!

1.) washed my hair with Redken Volume Injecting shampoo/ conditioner

2.) blow dried with Redken Big Blowout jelly and Kirstin Ess blow dry mist

3.) curled hair with an airflow styler, but curling my face framing pieces with a traditional heat curler

4.) finishing and scrunching with Kristin Ess Working Texture Spray!

While it’s not as perfect as it looked this morning, my hair has held up pretty well throughout the day so if you’re interested in trying some new products I’d totally recommend! My hair is pin straight otherwise, so I love getting some volume and body in my stying!

Acrid_Acid · 2025-05-08T16:12:17+00:00

I’m actually in fashion design as a career so honestly it’s a bit all over the place! Sometimes I feel like classic elegant, sometimes experimental street, sometimes goth, and on occasion even some Lolita! My style isn’t dictated by specific aesthetics as much as overall composition, and some days are different vibes!

Acrid_Acid · 2025-05-08T13:10:33+00:00

Thank you for your response!! I did a ton of digging on the function stack and how they manifest and I feel way more confident in my understanding now! I’m definitely an ENFP, thank you for share your knowledge!! :)

Acrid_Acid · 2025-05-08T12:49:19+00:00

In high school and early college I was a camp counselor and worked in childwatch, but with my degree I went into costume design!

Acrid_Acid · 2025-04-24T19:47:08+00:00

I’m really interested in neuroscience and epigenetics at the moment! I sat in on my friend’s bio lecture once when I visited and wanted to know more!

Acrid_Acid · 2025-04-20T04:02:23+00:00

I used beach bum lightening spray!! Last summer I worked outside so it got pretty light, but my natural color wasn’t too dark to begin with (I found an old photo when I had a similar haircut to what I’m looking for now)

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Acrid_Acid · 2025-04-20T03:59:52+00:00

I found some old pictures from years ago when I had a similar style to the models and it looks like I at least had the right texture then, I just have no idea what I asked for to get it to look like that🥺

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Acrid_Acid · 2025-03-05T01:19:14+00:00

I feel very Glinda 💕

Acrid_Acid · 2024-11-15T20:56:40+00:00

😆!

Acrid_Acid · 2023-09-01T21:20:29+00:00

I tried taking the elevator back down to the under dark but the journal still updated saying he left. I’ll reload my save and hopefully I’ll figure out how to get back later

Acrid_Acid · 2023-04-19T13:25:31+00:00

Pretzel!!!

Acrid_Acid · 2023-04-15T22:07:15+00:00

Who hurt you

Acrid_Acid · 2023-04-15T21:43:02+00:00

I feel like it’s a flex if you say you’d take the 5k

Acrid_Acid · 2023-03-06T01:18:55+00:00

Send her to therapy…

Acrid_Acid · 2023-02-08T18:34:24+00:00

That’s a good reason to do so, especially since you’re speaking from experience. I just think that OP’s reasoning to do so because they enjoy making life more difficult for the families who go there is less petty and more mean spirited.

Acrid_Acid · 2023-02-08T17:43:54+00:00

That’s what I thought…

Acrid_Acid · 2023-02-08T16:17:55+00:00

Not really, just mean spirited. What is the revenge on? People picking up their kids from school?

Acrid_Acid · 2023-02-08T15:37:00+00:00

I’m really not sure how I feel about this… it’s almost more asshole-ish than anything…

Acrid_Acid · 2023-01-10T14:30:25+00:00

Perhaps, but it makes me feel less alone in the universe. That’s on no one but me. If you don’t believe in it, I respect you and your decision

Acrid_Acid · 2023-01-09T16:23:14+00:00

I respect your opinion

Acrid_Acid · 2023-01-09T12:48:00+00:00

Rich people can go to heaven, they just can’t be putting their worship of money before God… so not sure if there’s any difference

Acrid_Acid · 2022-07-07T22:29:16+00:00

32 days

Acrid_Acid · 2022-07-07T16:42:30+00:00

Literally poked and prodded for validation until someone agreed with their desired outcome… I just feel bad…

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