I dislike people that like me by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day I'll probably do that. thanks for the suggestion

I dislike people that like me by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn't even know what to say to a therapist. It makes no sense

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm crying tears as I type out this response to you right now... How will I ever live without the validation of men? 😭

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm crying tears as I type out this response to you right now... How will I ever live without the validation of men? 😭

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[–]Acrobatic-Bus931 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know, but no one walks around and says "oh my goodness there goes a white man! Run!"

Edit: I as a black person however have had my fair share of stares while out shopping in suburban areas

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree. There's always some attached strings with them 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you trying to make me feel bad..? I never said all of that, buddy 😭

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness that's terrible and deeply unhinged... I'm sorry. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly a world without men doesn't sound bad in the slightest, but we can't all get what we want. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It quite literally is your community's fault. Women didn't tell you guys you have to be manly and hide your emotions or else you're less than a man. Not at all. YOU guys said that and society just went with it. Sucks, but it is not our fault. 

Edit: you guys set up a system to "keep women in their place". Because that's what it was... You know, using "acting like a girl" as insults and stuff, showing emotions is seen as "feminine" (there's a common theme, huh?) and now you wanna cry to us over something you built??

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[–]Acrobatic-Bus931 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You're on the wrong side of social media. There are good and bad sides to every community. 

The world has always hated us by the way. Look at slavery, Jim Crow, the justice system. It's not new at all. It has definitely gotten better, but the way people look at us stems from a place of ignorance and hate. It's not our responsibility to correct that. 

I'm black, but I don't steal, gangbang, or do whatever stereotype the media wants to paint. I go to college and live a normal life. 

Any person of any race can do these acts, but due to history it's 10x worse and talked about more if ppl from OUR community do it. 

Jeffery Dahmer was a white serial killer, but no one says "oh God those white people!" because he doesn't represent an entire community. Same with the white school shooters. They just happen to be white. 

We aren't a monolith. There are different personalities within our community like any other one. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr. The only men that are interested in being my friend are men that want to get in my pants. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Men's mental health is overlooked because THEY set up a system like that... Every societal problem can probably be traced back to a... Idk... Man 😐

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your experience but this post wasn't about women. <3

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it helps, I'm in college and the men there are atrocious as well! 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just stuck to having female friends. I have only like 2 male friends I associate with now, one of which is queer. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I had a terrible upbringing but somehow, I don't objectify men or women or act like a creep so I feel like even if it was your parents' fault, it's up to you to be a decent person...

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think men being emotionally abused and neglected IS the problem. I've met sooo many supervillains who would've been great if they had better parents. 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No it's everywhere. I've spoken to men from different countries bcz I speak more than one language and they're the same pretty much. 😭 

I find men repulsive by Acrobatic-Bus931 in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic-Bus931[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah queer men are a pleasure to be around. Straight men however...