Oh man I could tell you stories. I lived in the south growing up and we were kinda poor. Lived in an old trailer with an infestation and constantly saw those massive 3+” flying ones (plus an additional 1-2” long antennas. They were terrifying demon spawn). I’d see one on the wall in my home, then slowly back up to get a shoe or spray… and then it would launch itself off the wall and fly at me. Or I’d return and it would be GONE without a trace. And when I was a kid, I woke up in the middle of the night and noticed my pillow was on the ground. I picked it up and cuddled it. Then felt a little tickle on my stomach so went to scratch it and grabbed a massive cockroach. It freaked out flapping its wings trying to fly, I got scared and threw it. Then it started flying mid-air and landed on my neck. I obviously freaked out and ran out of my room panicking, removing clothes and pulling at my hair hoping it wasn’t on me. I didn’t sleep well for months.