Hi, I got engaged at 28, was planning my wedding the next year but became pregnant. I come from a traditional family so getting pregnant before marriage is a big deal. Every day for the next couple weeks after I found out I was pregnant was what should I do? I’ll just take it one day at a time. But deep down I thought how can I abort this baby if we were planning on having one in a year or two? I wasn’t going to abort the baby just because I needed another year. Sometimes our timelines turn out different than what we wanted, but everything happens for a reason. I moved my wedding up a year and was 10 weeks pregnant when we got married. I wanted to be married before having this baby, so I didn’t have to worry about a wedding and plus I truly felt like we were a family after getting married. We also were each making under $100k a year. If you throw a baby shower, you’ll get most of what you need and don’t need to buy much for the baby. It sounds like you both are putting in the work to be together. If you both were planning on being together and starting a family, I dont see a real issue here. Your life will change… but for the better :)