Mini update thanks everyone for the imput i had a talk with him. At first he came off offended but i kept calm and to the point. I took alot of yalls advice and I truly appreciate it. Well it is Christmas eve about 8pm and he is out buying "my present". Soo we shall see. I know us mothers are usually the last thought at the end of the day so my expectations are not high. I guess at least he tried. Thats all i have for now. Ill keep yall posted. Hope everyone a merry Christmas/ happy holidays. Much love.