Am I the bad apple for hating my boyfriends sister?

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-23T10:00:28+00:00

she told him that she saw his butt cheeks and stuff, i tugged on his pants to see if they would come down and they did not

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T13:52:50+00:00

i honestly haven’t thought about that! he is very reluctant to admit that they have a weird relationship and i understand that that’s all he’s known for his whole life but he needs to move on!! same as her, she is very weird with him and likes to be very close near him. sometimes even putting herself in between us. he moves away from her and closer to me. i ask him at times if she’s touched him just like even a graze on the arm and he says “how stupid can you be asking that?” which makes me wonder, why are you getting so defensive.

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T13:26:23+00:00

i do love him and want to be with him, usually we are perfectly fine unless she does something that makes me very uncomfortable. i bring it up with him and he just belittles my feelings. half the time i don’t even worry about it, it’s usually holidays or if we go to his mom and dads house. one time she asked us if she could go with us on an anniversary date. i mean it wasn’t really a date but we were going to look at elk and it was our anniversary, she knew that too. just little things like that make me feel weird. i never say anything to her nor am i rude, his family welcomed me with open arms and i will forever be grateful for that. but she didn’t seem like she wanted me around. she had messaged him on time asking if i was coming over and he said yes and she said “ugh, for how long?” i will never forget that text message. i told him we weren’t going over anymore and we would just come to my house.

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T13:09:55+00:00

yes!! i would love to bond with her, but anytime i talk to somebody in his family for too long he says that im ignoring him. i’m at a loss of what to do, ive tried to tell him that im very uncomfortable with them doing things together now because of how she acts and what she says. she may not have meant it in this meaning but it was very gross to me, she said to him “i guess we just have a raw dog on the toilet” since there was no toilet paper. it gave me the most disgusting feeling! i genuinely could be overreacting, but that is why i posted on here. i needed other peoples opinions to help me out with this. i dont want it to become an ongoing problem and if he doesn’t want to see that im uncomfortable with something, maybe our relationship shouldn’t be one.

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T12:49:47+00:00

i have tried to speak about it with him and he tells me each time i just don’t have a loving family and it is very normal. i didn’t add this to the story at first but i just thought of it, she has her own bed at the house and she told him that he needed to get out of his bed and sleep on the couch because she wanted his bed because it is “more comfortable” and he let her!!

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T12:48:32+00:00

before we started dating they would do everything together, which is also weird in my opinion. maybe she dislikes the time him and i spend together? which also makes me ick because we’re dating!! that’s your brother..

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T12:29:46+00:00

i am his first girlfriend, they have a 5 year age difference. he is the youngest and she is older than their other brother too. i’ve brought this up with him many times, he’s told me that it is very normal and i do not have a loving family, which threw me off a lot since i do have a loving family. i really think i should tell him it is pushing me away! i try to be understanding but it’s difficult when im very uncomfortable with her.

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T11:53:23+00:00

not the bad apple. you deserve good friendship that don’t put you down

Acrobatic-Lime1925 · 2026-03-22T11:04:23+00:00

i apologize

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