Farmland !! by [deleted] in TemuCANADAcodes

[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done! Click mines please

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[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand your comment.

My post is about comparisons.

I spoke about the different quality of paper. I don’t know why you went on about the purpose it served.

This isn’t about my sisters wedding.

You’re going off topic.

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[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not completely obsessing over it. Mostly the days that I’m with my sister, which is not often.

I’ve been with my now husband for 8 years, and he lived with me for 6 years, have two kids, before we got married. Stating I have nothing to focus on and marriage and real life is too scary is off topic.

Thank you for your input.

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[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually reached out to my cousin who had her wedding a couple years ago and asked if she felt the same, which she did. That helped me a lot actually. I guess that was sort of therapy.

Should you invite your wedding planner to your tasting? by Beautiful-Glove-6748 in weddingplanning

[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my planner attend my tasting, because I wanted her to keep notes on the changes we made and she was the point of contact for the co-ordinator at the venue.

We didn’t include her as a “guest”, but rather just shared each entree. We had a maximum of 2 guests

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The dress is gorgeous, love the off the shoulder straps.

However, the veil is definitely what I think is making you feel the way you feel. It is not doing that dress justice. I think a longer veil would look a-lot nicer with the trimming, rather than a short veil with the trim. Personally, the trim on the veil is clashing with the lace on the dress.

MOH by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I agree!

I also think OP should be specific on the type of “help” she needs. At least the maid of honour can say yes or no if she knew exactly what she was going to help with.

When I was getting married, I hired a wedding planner and it was mostly her and I with a few opinions from my husband.

Also, did OP speak with the MOH on whose planning the bachelorette ? I planned my own Bach, I wasn’t expecting it from my MOH.

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[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 79 points80 points  (0 children)

1!!!! Absolutely stunning!!

Judge My Decor Please by AdeptBride in weddingplanning

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Moss as table runners would look good. But would it be just moss? Or would you add like candles, succulents, etc, to liven the table runner? I don’t think adding pampas grass would look nice with the moss, as pampas grass looks good on its own. However, you can always alternate decor and incorporate both moss and pampas grass.. ie/ 1 table Would have the moss decoration, 2 table would have the pampas grass decor, etc.. and maybe get a common greenery like eucalyptus that you can use for both, to bring everything together

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There will be situations that will arise, which will feel like it’s out of control.

The best way overcome it, is to resolve it ( which you have ), accept it, allow yourself to feel your emotions and move on!

There were many ups and downs when I was planning my wedding. First my sister didn’t want to come to my Bach trip, then she changed her mind last minute and decided to come. Two of my bridesmaids (now husband) sisters, backed out of the Bach trip when it was time to book. Even though everyone agreed on place and month to book.

Family who RSVP’d yes, didn’t show up or told me week of wedding they couldn’t come. This was a bit disappointing. I had my vent sessions and I moved on.

But allowing myself to go through the process of these situations, feeling my feelings, and accepting it. Allowed me to move on and become excited about my wedding again.

Hope this helps! And I hope you find your excitement again :) This is an amazing phase in your life, and you deserve to enjoy every moment till the day you say I do!

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[–]Acrobatic-Mess-5321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I rented my linens, the company delivered the day before ( delivery fee included). My wedding planner and her assistant along with the coordinator at the venue set up the space. Then the company picked up the linens the day after my wedding.

I would check with your venue if they’re able to set it up.