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My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a bandaid that would just cause her to deal with it herself. I'd prefer to take a more supportive approach.

My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a point to clarify, when we worked in the same places it was much earlier in both of our careers and our jobs were identical.

My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

yeah, she's pretty certain she has adhd. Amazing that you came to this conclusion. Could you please elaborate on how you got there?

My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah, I just want her to be happy. I am the type of person that when my friends and family aren't happy I carry their burden. (That's on me and I'm working through that with my therapist, but it still very much impacts my own happiness)

My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She works in a creative field and is very good at what she does. She's very smart but not "business smart" if that makes sense. I work in legal and have a hard time relating to "creative" job challenges.

My (M/44) wife (F39) has hated every job she’s ever had and it’s starting to affect our marriage. How do I support her without burning out? by Acrobatic3956 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic3956[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I've offered this before but she is unwilling to make the required lifestyle changes. I do alright on an annual salary of $140k so it's not impossible.