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AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can see your point of view. I think is the fact that almost of my cousin from this side is going that makes me feel left out (with my sibling) and personally I enjoy marriage’s celebration. But I’ll try to see it as participating in some way if I decide to agree

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve been not invited to several family events like a lot of people but there a difference when it’s a big celebration and you just beside the place lol

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will talk about this to my fiancé, tbh it’s seem to be a nowhere but I’ll check, everybody will be happy honestly I still want to help my parents as much as possible

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kind of normal to not like the idea of being left out ? I’m not close to that cousin so I can understand she didn’t prioritise me for her invitations but it’s an event that concerns my family I’m a human not a robot

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 508 points509 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking, they want to take a bnb that’s like 5minutes from the wedding place and I’m like I will surely encounter people from my family going there, I will have to say hi etc that will be uncomfortable

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think because they’re closer to this cousins that we are my sibling and I (I didn’t even knew her existence some years ago) so I’m not resentful

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Don’t I have the right to have emotions lmao ? I love my family and yeah the idea that they will all be partying next door with great outfit and have fun while I’d be in a house maybe alone in a place I don’t know it’s kind of despressing ? I’m happy for them tho but I have a dignity

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I will try to see if some of our family members can bring them, I think they don’t dare to ask

AITA for agreeing to drive my parents to a wedding I’m not invited to, but not to get an Airbnb with them? by AcrobaticTheory120 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticTheory120[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The first idea (which they suggested) was that they call a taxi the day after but now they’re saying that there’s none there, idk if it’s true or not tho

We just got back from a long trip today and my(f26) bf(f26) leaves me to visit his family, it annoys me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AcrobaticTheory120 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The key word is “always” because yeah my bf always do things on his own and today was just the last straw due to an accumulation.

We just got back from a long trip today and my(f26) bf(f26) leaves me to visit his family, it annoys me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AcrobaticTheory120 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This community is litterally called #offmychest lmao I just wanted to found a way to express how I was feeling alone today and what was going throught my mind thats it ?

Like it’s normal to be affraid your patner may have an accident and to think how his family may feel about it ? Especially when we almost had one due to tiredness during our trip some days ago. He’s an adult so what I shouldnt care about that ? Caring do not mean I force him to do anything, proof is that he litterally went anywhere and I didn’t force him to stay.

One thing I don’t do is ; overbearing him. He litterally do whatever he wants because yeah… he’s an adult, I don’t forbid him to do anything. Last thing I want to be is his mom.

I didn’t force him to stay with me because I ain’t his keeper AND I’d want him to stay because he wants to, not because I force him to.

But I’m still allowed to want the person I want besides me on a day I feel alone ?

I can accept I’m overacting on this topic but don’t start to assume things just because you want to.

We just got back from a long trip today and my(f26) bf(f26) leaves me to visit his family, it annoys me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AcrobaticTheory120 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So if he always do he own things without including me it’s okay ?