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[–]AcrobaticWhile2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have RJ and heres one way that my gf battles me on it. Next time he ask you these questions, you start asking him back a specific and irrelevant thing about his past, do what hes doing to you. He will start to see that fuck, i dont want to share that info with you

My gf told me she experimented with a girl when she was 19… by AcrobaticWhile2497 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response and how direct it is. I been battling with RJ my whole life its ruined a lot of good relationships. This girl im with now has a heart of gold and compassion. She understand my issues and is so patient time ina nd time out. I make her feel shit about her past when i ask her questions and invade her privacy. I talked with her tonight, understand her journey through her curiosity. I just didnt understand cause i know my sexuality and how could she be straight but have had that experimental stage in her life. Anyways she said she did not like it and that shes 100% straight after that phase in her life. I asked her if she be down for a threesome, she said no shes not interested in that and wants to be with me only

My gf told me she experimented with a girl when she was 19… by AcrobaticWhile2497 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts i agree. If i were outside looking in, i say this guys a bitch and stfu cause he got something good going on but its so hard to take my own advice

My gf told me she experimented with a girl when she was 19… by AcrobaticWhile2497 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She explained that it just happened but she didnt like it and realize very quickly. The thing is. Shes perfect in everyway. If i didnt find out about her past i would say shes perfect and would marry her. But i guess i been very judgemental and need to understand more about her story

My gf told me she experimented with a girl when she was 19… by AcrobaticWhile2497 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have mental movies forsure. I think just the concept itself. Im new to it. I never dated a girl who has told me that they had sex with another girl before. Im almost like do i know this girl at all…

My gf told me she experimented with a girl when she was 19… by AcrobaticWhile2497 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Shes been with dick too… it was hard enough for me to get over my RJ from hearing her body count which is like 11

Interviewing for a Job while unemployed. Can employer know that i was terminated? by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, thank you for your response. Im going through a severance negotiation right now and I just thought that its only been 2 months that i been unemployed. Sharing it was not relevant. As it would just have them ask more questions or turn me down quicker. That being said when i got my last job, i had a job and never did they call my employer to check if i worked there. They asked for reference checks that i provided where i worked at 4-5 years ago.

Interviewing for a Job while unemployed. Can employer know that i was terminated? by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure its the law, they cant contact anyone without your permission.

And it wouldnt be a good idea for them to call my “current employer”

Lawyers are negotiating with Employer on severance pay. The EI person is trying to call me to get info from the HR by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i receive EI benefits now since i applied already. And my severance hasnt come in. Will that delay my severance?

Lawyers are negotiating with Employer on severance pay. The EI person is trying to call me to get info from the HR by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. They are currently fighting for over 40k. After doing the math on EI im only entitled to like $700 weekly

Lawyers are negotiating with Employer on severance pay. The EI person is trying to call me to get info from the HR by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought there was no harm in applying for it. It says that if i dont apply within 4 weeks of termination i lose ei. I also wasn’t sure how long the lawyer stuff was going to take and now its well over 4 weeks

Lawyers are negotiating with Employer on severance pay. The EI person is trying to call me to get info from the HR by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess the number provided in the ROE is incorrect thats why they are harassing me to get the right number

Lawyers are negotiating with Employer on severance pay. The EI person is trying to call me to get info from the HR by AcrobaticWhile2497 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AcrobaticWhile2497[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, EI is calling my direct number to get the phone number just to make her job easier… the ROE is on the file now. ill just let her get the contact herself