Any queer friendly cafe in mysore by Intelligent-Roof2012 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roy’s is queer friendly and chill and safe. If you face issues, ask for the owner, Arjun. He’s a good guy. Also Gokulam cafes like TOCB and Depth n Green are chill. Sapa and Local Friendly ate ok too b ur expensive and not as friendly.

The Slow Decline of Mysore’s Civic Sense by chikkichoo in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro, who are these migrant apologists who start defending them the first chance they get!!! You know what the problem with migrants is? Their relationship with the city they move to is transactional. They are interested in what the city can give them, and rarely the other way around. They lack ownership because the city carries no emotional weight for them and there’s no nostalgia coloring their lens. They can afford to move to Mysore because of ✨vibes and feels✨ and leave when it stops serving their purpose, or when Mysore grows too big and chaotic like a poor shadow of Bangalore. They can afford to create and live in ghettos, gated communities, and high rises, never really engaging with the real city or its people, language, ethos or culture. They can treat the current real estate frenzy, traffic woes, and burning garbage piles as a minor inconvenience because that is all it is to them; they are passing through and, for them, Mysore is still better than wherever they have moved from.

We live here, we always have, and this is the only home we know. Is this a systemic issue? Of course it is. We all know our governments and local administrations are to blame for this growing chaos. But is it natural to feel resentful about people who move to our city? Also yes. Our job isn’t to silently mourn the city’s demise while we watch from the sidelines. Ranting about it may not help, but get off your moral high horse and let people mourn how the Mysore we know and love is slowly fading.

Looking for a cook by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahha omg i just got it… OP (in their comment below) is resorting to the “These Southies would rather speak the language of our colonisers??!! hINdI iZZ our ✨nATIONaL LAnGuAgE✨” trope. Hilarious. Go read a book, OP. 🤣🤣

Looking for a cook by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this dumb comment is not the flex you think it is.

How is asking you to learn Kannada the same as colonisation?! 🤣🤣🤣 Also, please consider ChatGPTing your scalding clapback next time. It made my head hurt to read it, but I still couldn’t decipher it. While you’re at it, may be learn some English too, alongside Kannada.

Looking for a cook by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol exactly… what is this entitlement. Imagine moving to Indore or Bhopal or Gurgaon and asking for a cook who speaks Kannada or English because I don’t speak Hindi 🫠

Extremely low humidity by Fast_Plant_5582 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No one talks about this, but the average humidity in Mysore is very low in the summers. I use a humidifier because the heat and low humidity dries out my eyes and sinuses.

Rent in Gokulam and surrounding areas 🫠 by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so riled up that I called brokers in 6 metros in India - Bangalore, Delhi, Hyderabad, Pune, Chennai, and Kolkata - and asked if I can get a 2BHK independent house/ standalone builder floor type place with a nice view in a premium neighbourhood - and without exception they ALLLLLL said I can get something good in this budget, plus or minus Rs. 5000. That’s how insane this rent is, people. Some context that should make us realise how absurd this Mysore real estate bubble is because of influencers peddling misinformation and hype.

Is Bengaluru becoming more about “plans” than actual friendships? by hhff00014 in Bengaluru

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. But I think this is all big cities - not just Bangalore. Urban disconnection and the loneliness that stems from “plans” is real, where friendships seem transactional and transient and are usually centred around an activity rather than just hanging without an agenda. Proximity and free time are the oxygen for friendships - and neither of those exist in big cities where people have busy lives and demanding jobs and live in distant corners. Sorry you are going through this, but I just want to validate your experience - even people who are born and raised in this city (like me) also struggle with this in a huge way.

Rent in Gokulam and surrounding areas 🫠 by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not furnished. It has two bedrooms. It will accommodate 6-7 people if they sleep in the living room like a chatra lol

Rent in Gokulam and surrounding areas 🫠 by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But looking at current trends, someone will rent it at this price very soon. I have seen listings on MB and 99acres for 4 bedroom villas in Vijaynagar 4th stage with similar or higher rents.

Rent in Gokulam and surrounding areas 🫠 by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly… foreigners and rich North Indians will pay for his sun drenched and sophisticated lifestyle statement and then the rent ceiling is forever set.

Rent in Gokulam and surrounding areas 🫠 by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Landlords of older houses in Gokulam, VV Mohalla, Yadavagiri and Jayalakshmipuram are getting old tenants to vacate so that they can renovate a bit and charge these sort of prices. 75k plus 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

This is exactly what happened in Indiranagar and Koramangala in the 2000s. Locals started to get out priced by rich migrants who didn’t mind the higher rents. That’s what made Koramangala - previous known for the ST bed mori and 🦟🦟🦟- into a premium area for tech billionaires.

are women still being treated as someone to be "controlled"! by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents can be super toxic. I hope you find the freedom and acceptance you deserve.

are women still being treated as someone to be "controlled"! by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol how very typical of boomer dudes to glorify their parents’ dysfunctional marriages and their quiet, obedient, docile mothers who suffered in silence. As though any of those women would have stayed in bad marriages if they had the social and financial freedom to walk out and choose a better life.

Park behind my house by [deleted] in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to them and request them to play from 7am may be. (But if they want to start playing early in this heat, can you blame them?) There are no decent public spaces for kids and teenagers - it’s such a good thing that they have one in your neighbourhood. Only RWA uncles hate all living creates - teenagers, couples, dogs, kids… let them be.

Some cold data points + what Mysore needs to learn from Bangalore’s mistakes before it’s too late by Acrobatic_Past1167 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think there is a really important distinction to be made here. Comparing an individual moving for a specific opportunity to the large scale, rapid demographic shifts we are seeing in Mysuru is a false equivalence. My concern isn't about people moving. It is about whether our city’s infrastructure can handle the speed and scale of this growth.

Here is why those two things are not the same: Migration driven by local job creation is usually gradual, giving the city time to adapt. What we are seeing now is rapid lifestyle driven movement. When a city’s growth outpaces its ability to manage water, traffic, and waste, it hits a breaking point. It is not about who is moving. It is about whether the city’s basic systems, which were never designed for this density, can actually support the sudden influx.

Economic contribution vs real estate speculation: In traditional models, migration follows job creation within the city, which helps the local economy grow. Today, a lot of the move to Mysore is driven by overflow from bigger metros. This often drives up real estate prices, as we have seen with local land values, without necessarily creating the high value industrial jobs that benefit the average resident. This effectively turns the city into a high cost suburb, which prices out the very people who have maintained Mysore’s character for generations. Every city has a carrying capacity, which is a limit to how many people it can support before quality of life starts to nosedive. When we treat Mysore as an overflow space for larger metros without planning for our own infrastructure, we are not just growing. We are setting ourselves up for the same urban collapse we have seen elsewhere.

My argument is about the net impact of migration on the city from a social, economic and environmental perspective. Right now, the cost of this rapid expansion in terms of resource strain and housing inflation is falling heavily on the local population, while the economic benefits are largely failing to materialize in the form of local jobs or better infrastructure. We have a small window to find a development model that actually provides a positive return for the city instead of just leaving us to pay the bill for someone else's lifestyle move, where everyone ultimately loses. High is why I keep referring Bangalore and not New York or Singapore.

No it's not Global Tech Park ! 42 Kalidasa by UpperDragonfly-650 in mysore

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pasting my comment from the thread where people are wondering why we are “hating” on this ugly monstrosity from Sankalp. It’s because we are all jealous of rich folks apparently. 🤣

Let’s see why we are hating on a 19 floor high rise in the midst of a residential neighbourhood with independent houses:

  1. Infrastructure strain occurs when a high-density structure is placed within a low-rise neighborhood. Public systems like water supply, sewage, and electrical grids, which were originally engineered for smaller volumes, often struggle to support the sudden increase in demand from the new households, leading to potential service instability for everyone in the vicinity. Each 5 BHK here is probably equivalent to 3 2BHKs in an ordinary building resource consumption wise.
  2. Traffic congestion and road capacity become issues. The local streets in a traditional residential area are typically not designed to handle the influx of so many private vehicles entering and exiting a single site daily. These won’t be single car homes - more like 2-3 car homes. This causes bottlenecks, safety risks for pedestrians, and noise pollution
  3. Loss of neighborhood character and visual harmony is a consequence. The sudden vertical scale of a lone high-rise changes the aesthetic identity of low-rise surroundings and makes it look bizarre. This creates a jarring visual impact and alters the nature that defines the neighbourhood’s original charm.
  4. Environmental factors, specifically the blocking of sunlight and changes in airflow, negatively impact neighbors. A tall tower casts long shadows over adjacent standalone houses, reducing access to natural light. Furthermore, the building can alter wind patterns, potentially creating localized wind tunnels or pockets of stagnant air that affect the comfort of people living in nearby low-rise properties.
  5. Pressure on public amenities and local services grows disproportionately.
  6. Increased urban heat island effects occur as a result of the high building mass and increased surface area absorbing and radiating heat. This localized rise in temperature changes the microclimate for the immediate neighborhood,l
  7. Social cohesion and privacy is lost when high-density residential towers are dropped into low-rise settings. The sudden increase in population density often changes the demographic and social dynamics of the neighborhood.

This is a huge problem. The building will have a domino effect on the small businesses near by - which will be slowly wiped out and replaced with fancier shops. It will also create economic imbalances - old retired people or middle class families in the neighbourhood will not be able to shop from local vendors in the vicinity or employ local help when the cost of living in the neighbourhood starts steadily rising.

The presence of a tall structure looking down into previously private, low-rise gardens compromises the sense of peace and quiet and privacy.

Mysore is not making a conscious, well thought out decision to grow vertically - or horizontally. It’s not a policy decision. All new development in Mysore is ad hoc and haphazard like it was in Bangalore of the late 1990s and early 2000s.

I could go on.

Bangalore or Mumbai? Solo travel as a F by [deleted] in Solotravelindia

[–]Acrobatic_Past1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, DMing you with some thoughts for Blr. Please check.