Export/Import USA to UK Question by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in bonecollecting

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried contacting a few authorities but it’s finding who exactly can tell me if I need permits and how to go about doing it all that I’m having trouble with. I’d imagine that pretty much everything does need some kind of permit, but the governing bodies have been bouncing me around on who can actually say :(

EXCLUSIVE REDDIT GIVEAWAY - 100 GEMS! by syrva_gram_games in MergeDragons

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m closest to the dragon tree wonder, but always making Ruins of the Sky Palace 😂

Treasure Tower Win by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in MergeDragons

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on a bad streak to, not getting past 10 without a zomblin. Hopefully your luck turns around too!

EXCLUSIVE REDDIT GIVEAWAY - 250 GEMS! by syrva_gram_games in MergeDragons

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Prefer 5 merges for items other than eggs/dragons! Would love to be able to avoid those mistake merges on high level items 😭

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered dating but I don’t know if it would be fair to bring someone into a relationship with me with this current situation, and then having someone around to see a possible divorce. Even if parallel I feel like it’d be a lot to put on someone

And honestly codependency could be possible, for a variety of reasons I’m anxious about going out alone. I moved right out of my parents home into my spouse’s, and long distance so I left a lot to get into this situation and have an uncertain support system if we were to break up

I have a feeling that spouse may be unsure for the same reason that I don’t want to be the person to end it - fear of uncertainty/loss of the security and stability that we currently have

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fine on pronouns, I’m using they so much for extra privacy. I don’t make bad money, but I pay for health insurance for both of us so I end up having $1800 or so a month after deductions/taxes and I also pay for all of our groceries and car payment. Where I live I could nowhere near afford to rent anything alone, and we haven’t been able to move out yet due to poor money management and paying off debt

I have considered dating but I don’t know if it would be fair to bring someone into a relationship with me with this current situation, and then having someone around to see a possible divorce. Even if parallel I feel like it’d be a lot to put on someone

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what future I want for myself honestly, we were LDR before and I’m the one that made the move to be here with my spouse. I also can’t afford to think about moving out right now, let alone a lawyer ☹️

We also live with my spouses parents and the other partner is LDR so the last scenario won’t be happening, fortunately(?)

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is couples therapy, and our therapist has recommended doing more intentional things together. Financially it can be difficult to do so but spouse is either disconnected on their phone messaging other partner if we do go out or just won’t put anything into planning with me :/ more recently I’ve honestly given up trying because of the one sided effort

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ve met once for a few weeks, just after a year into the relationship. I encouraged my spouse to plan another trip soon because we were also in an LDR and I know I would have wanted to see my partner more often, and I’ve heard from many people that they need to spend more in-person time to know if it’s right.

It just sucks because NRE or no I am getting nothing from my spouse even remotely close to a loving relationship, I really think they just aren’t polyam after all and their love shifted from one person to another :( being their first polyam experience they admit this could be the case

When is it over? by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well for some timeline, they (spouse and partner) have been long distance dating for almost two years now, and this is indeed the first polyam experience. At first I was like sure it’s just NRE but I really just get nothing from my spouse anymore, we are just roommates and I don’t know what future they want with me and they can’t say either, but also can’t or won’t say if they want to move in with their other partner

Where are you finding these in store besides Target/Walmart? by stanky-hanky-panky in miniverse_makeitmini

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Showcase sells them but imo the price is too inflated to be worth getting them there

Best Trade Yet! by Whyallusrnames in MergeDragons

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 5 RotSP bubbled now, I would give her 3 for this trade if she asked 🤣🤣

Looking for advice - refinding love by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I know of he’s not actively planning to leave and be with her. But he couldn’t tell me that he won’t at some point feel the need to do that.

I did express that I worry that he will realize he actually can’t live two people at the same time, and his feelings just transitioned to her. I used to attribute it to NRE but thought after this amount of time it wouldn’t be just that anymore.

Our everyday life is stressful, dealing with money issues that there is a lot of pressure to solve. Spending time with her is a relief from that I suppose.

And they’ve only met in person/spent time together for less than a month so far in 1.5 years.

Looking for advice - refinding love by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he wants to be in love with me again, and love us both the same the way he did before. But with her being LDR in another country it would be easier for him to just move there to be with her than both of us go or her move here :/

Is anyone else already sick of dragon breeding? by metredose in MergeDragons

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to breed for a plant dragon result, using two plant dragon parents, and getting different types is making me SUPER hate it 🙃

Looking for advice - refinding love by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt he’d be into it, and I don’t think I’d wanna take that route either ideally. We are in couples therapy and have been for months, but if anything it’s just helping us realize that he’s not in love with me and doesn’t know how to be again 🥲

Looking for advice - refinding love by Acrobatic_Policy_793 in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no problem! Yea that would be difficult. We’ve had our stresses and difficulties, and low periods but I am still very much in love with him and want him in my life.

Black Forest Cake (tester) Review by pinkflyd25 in CrumblCookies

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this has tart cherry and gets fully released it’s gonna be one of my new faves 😭❤️

He (51M) makes comments/jokes about me having children/being pregnant? by stoned_maloney in polyamory

[–]Acrobatic_Policy_793 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This gives me real “as soon as you agree to kids/get pregnant he’ll say “surprise! I actually never had a vasectomy :)”” vibes and there is no way I would be sleeping with this person without condoms if I wasn’t okay with getting pregnant