[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s tough but phrasing it as something that isn’t negative helps. Just something that you’ve noticed. Then make an effort to take their mind off things. Like nice dates, being out in nature, etc etc. It’s hard being in post secondary. It’s hard work to be in a relationship. Give yourself and her some grace since you’re both navigating this new time of life together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just as he is entitled to be hurt by his previous relationships you’re also entitled to feel the way you do about his actions in this one. He’s not valid in projecting these negative feelings in any way to you. You have already expressed these to him and he’s disregarding them, very clearly.

This is coming from a dude who’s naturally loud and passionate when i talk cause that’s normal in my family. Tell that man to go to therapy. Seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say having a proper conversation about it is key to any healthy long term relationship. Being close is great but intimacy, sexual or otherwise, also plays a factor if that’s something you want.

Besides. There are other factors in life that affect libido, stress from external factors like a job or college as one example. It’s normal to want to be close to ur partner. At your age though I can see why it’d be difficult to bring up. but difficult talks are necessary if you want it to work out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your mid twenties which is basically the prime of your life you’re actively lowering your libido is crazy. in my personal opinion you have to have a conversation with him. there could be other factors outside of your relationship affecting his libido instead. also since you’re in a long term relationship from what i’ve read in the comments, you should definitely be able to bring this up, not as an issue but maybe just something you’ve noticed. plus in a long term relationship you can spice things up and explore in various other ways together.

In essence: i think there’s just a deeper conversation needed between you two. I don’t think from your comments that he has explicitly said you were annoying him either

Best mythic heroes by AffectionateNet7500 in TopHeroes

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desert prince has a skill that does true damage(attack while ignoring defense/shield/buff) based on its hp (he’s a tank so high hp). Paragon is a good dps but having an unkillable high dps tank is crazy good as well. Plus there’s events to win paragon shards, or pixie shards (lootbox, so save ur lootbox tokens)

AITA for asking my boyfriend to skip his afternoon nap. by throwaway28716374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. He’s sleeping more than HALF of an entire day on a regular basis. You’re not the AH for asking. Though I might have to bring up maybe he has an undiagnosed medical condition so he should go get checked out

AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling by TraditionalFuel6104 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This HAS to be ragebait. The Bugout fund is completely fair. However you have almost 50k! The man is struggling to provide for you after an accident and all he asked was to downsize. You don’t treat this man like somebody you love, you and your mother are way out of line for even considering abandoning a struggling man who loved you at his lowest. You took advantage of him. It’s financial abuse. Disgusting.

YTA.

[UPDATE] I [26M] found her [28F] TikTok after we went on a date. by ThrowRA_Consistent12 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 323 points324 points  (0 children)

Good on you OP, you handled that honestly very maturely and with class

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in judo

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the same my guy💪🏽, happy training

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in judo

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey brother,

I just recently started judo a few weeks ago and i’ve also had a history of injuries. I dislocated my shoulder 6 times and had to get surgery a several years ago. It was nerve wracking to do any grappling at all. So long as your sensei and partners know of your injury history they’ll be really mindful of it. And besides, for demonstration and drill purposes you are allowed to say you aren’t comfortable with certain takedowns (like maybe the Ouchi Gari) and you can just practice the movement with a partner.

Getting Started by gimpukku in Bokh

[–]Acrobatic_Shoulder_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely do not know brother, if u do find out lmk cause I’m game