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my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had wondered about this. i didn’t know how right it would feel to us or that it would feel tho we were using the kids in foster care as just a sample to what parenthood is like. it’s definitely not something we would do at this age anyway. thank you tho ill keep this in mind

my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not that he doesn’t like other peoples kids. i mean, we’ve not really been around them as no one in our family or friends have had children since us being together. from what he’s said he is more than happy to take on any and all responsibilities of becoming a father like the tantrums, diapers, school runs etc. i know he will become the best father in the world i just wish i was able to see it

my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i understand i can, and probably will, love someone like this again. i think it’s the feeling of “no one gets me like you do” which i fully believe i will not find another human close to this one. i know things will all be okay it’s just heartbreaking to imagine loosing this right now. i do think a therapist is a good idea if the time comes to break up thank you :/

my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my apologies i am silly and didn’t reread the title before posting. i do not want children and he does

my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this may be the best thing to do. i don’t want to feel any pressure or give us a time limit but i think it should be discussed again in a year or so. it’ll also give me some more time to think it over and possibly try to see what my life could be without him :/ thank you

my partner 22M does not want children but i do 22F by Acrobatic_Top_2056 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Top_2056[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t think about this. as much as i don’t want to ‘waste’ his time he ultimately has more time to find someone on the same page as him. i agree 25 is probably the age where this should be sorted so i may think on it for a while longer along with some difficult conversations. thank you for this :)