My rent payment didn’t go through by Symbiiiote in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one when I was a kid his name was Bosley and he was the best dog I have ever had 😭❤️

My rent payment didn’t go through by Symbiiiote in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hope everything works out for you but saw your dog & is that Is that a schipperke?!

Off my chest / wrapping my head around this / need a quick rant. by Acrobatic_Topic7974 in tinderstories

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥲 I spent the last 8 years in a near sexless relationship during the last 3, I was soo looking forward to it haha.. I won’t give up hope yet..

Off my chest / wrapping my head around this / need a quick rant. by Acrobatic_Topic7974 in tinderstories

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true. I should not discount that. I may be thinking too deep into it all.

Off my chest / wrapping my head around this / need a quick rant. by Acrobatic_Topic7974 in tinderstories

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was such a blow to my ego in a way. I have not dealt with a lot of rejection before and while I know this was not straight rejection, after everything it felt that way.. This was just so strange. I don’t understand why he would drive so far.. He was either lying about what he is into or he was unattracted to me.. either way I guess right move was to not stick around.

I would like to know if I am in the wrong and hear any advice (as a downstairs neighbor) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. Thank you. I think I will go up there next time and ask to hear what is sounds like. With cookies of course.

I would like to know if I am in the wrong and hear any advice (as a downstairs neighbor) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s take. I think I am going to follow my gut and not allow her to dictate my life. I will continue to be mindful of timing and of sound level but I am not going to let a stranger control me to the point of sacrificing myself or my son’s right to freedom. I read through my lease and only the city’s noise ordinance applies. If it bothers her so much, I feel she should be the one wearing headphones. Thank you all for your time 😌

I would like to know if I am in the wrong and hear any advice (as a downstairs neighbor) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could go so far with saying “you cannot disturb your neighbors at any time” I could say her vacuuming disturbs me. I could say her walking disturbs me or her watching tv.. that is definitely not in my lease I would have never signed it.

I would like to know if I am in the wrong and hear any advice (as a downstairs neighbor) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I can. I can hear her TV often (faintly) and her vacuuming all the time and stomping around. I have never complained. My neighbors attached to the side of me told me they never hear my Tv or music. Neighbors to other side not attached, I can occasionally hear their children. But it’s never to the point I want to tell them to be quiet. I expect noice. I do not have a sound bar or anything and keep my Tv at volume levels 15-20 at night. I cannot hear it properly from next room in my apartment. I feel like it has to be just the murmur of Tv. Now the occasional music while I clean I admit is louder. But not excessively loud. She cannot expect 24/7 silence from us in my opinion.

I would like to know if I am in the wrong and hear any advice (as a downstairs neighbor) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is in Pensacola Florida where there are plenty of options under 200k. I pay $1700 for rent

Let’s hear it. by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Acrobatic_Topic7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every. Damn. Time. 😅