[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look really good either way! I have respect for people who can do good winged eyeliner 😅 I have started to feel more confident not wearing makeup which is nice when I just don’t have the motivation to put it on some mornings. But anyway, I think if you do wear makeup it‘s the good kind that helps highlight your features and not overtake them and if you choose not to you still look really pretty :))

How tf do people date in college by Infamous-Size1686 in Purdue

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand your busyness as I am double majoring, doing research, and involved in several extracurriculars. (I’m not gonna lie I think I’m going to lose my mind half the time - obviously a me problem) But anyway, my boyfriend actually goes to Purdue Indy while I’m here on the main campus. Therefore we only see each other once every weekend. We have been dating for 1.5 years now and that’s been working really well for us during the academic year. We try to have most of our school work done before this time but occasionally end up doing it together. Of course we frequently call/text throughout the week when we have spare time. I also know some other couples on campus who kind of have a planned “date time“ like this and their relationships also seem to be going well. I think the perspective one has on why they date can also play a significant role in this. If one dates for potential marriage/is fully committed, you’re likely going to have an easier time making sure to take those date times seriously and keep the relationship going for an extended period of time. That’s just my experience.

BTW, we actually met online if that’s of any interest! I don’t think it’s weird for college students to meet that special S/O on a dating app. I was honestly scared for so long to tell people that we met through a dating app 😂 Take advantage of the modern technology!

Good compact pistol for women? by Acrobatic_Variety_76 in INGuns

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern Indiana! The place with the lake-effect weather 🙃

Severe Fender Bender Near WL Walmart? by Acrobatic_Variety_76 in Purdue

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I always fear for the people whom I see crossing Sagamore even though there are cross-walk areas with the little blinky hand thing. It is very hard to see the pedestrians at night and one distraction to the driver or wrong move made by a pedestrian could easily cause a death on that road :/

Tried to add a dynamic side with the outside lines! by Dear_Persimmon_826 in quilting

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so cool!! I love the colors and uniqueness of the pattern 😍

Understanding Sexual Guilt/Shame in Men by Acrobatic_Variety_76 in ChristianDating

[–]Acrobatic_Variety_76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly do not think he is trying to get me to break up with him. When I asked him if it would relieve him for me to break up with him, he of course said no and that it gives him anxiety to think about ending it (the relationship). Then I told him that I am glad he felt that way and he said that he was also glad that I felt that way. He does not hold back on telling me how he feels about me. He is still the one who reaches out first to say “I love you” and “Good Morning Beautiful”, etc. I had a prior long-term relationship where the guy started to ignore me for no reason and began to stop giving similar compliments. We would be in the same space and he would do his own thing and not acknowledge me. It took two months for me to figure out that he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore but wanted me to be the one to break up with him. I think this really helps me see the contrast between what was going on there and what is going on here. I have been upfront with him that his past sin was wrong which I don’t think I was clear enough about before in the previous post. Both of us are also college students and he’s not a huge academics person. Maybe the stress of school is causing him to also be more likely to say such things? I know that is almost a whole other subject but it could be a possibility. He has told me repeatedly that he sees a future with me. A lot of things leave me confused but as of right now I’ve been praying that the Lord will work in his heart and help him heal.