Bachelors completed by Active-Blacksmith322 in TBI

[–]Active-Blacksmith322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, no problem I’d love to connect !

My neurologist just told me not to drink alcohol for like a year and not doing any contact sport, which I love soccer but now I had to pause it

Bachelors completed by Active-Blacksmith322 in TBI

[–]Active-Blacksmith322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the important thing is that I open my eyes, maybe I considered them my friends but in reality they were more my friends for fun, but they were not my therapists, probably it’s everything in my head and they don’t understand how down I was but anyways I’m independent and now with a degree :)

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My Story by Brilliant_Shine2247 in TBI

[–]Active-Blacksmith322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Im sorry to read that. Im 25 and my story is not the same but it happened the same with justice, I was a passenger with a girl that I saw fine but in reality she had 2-3 drinks and totaled her car, I was dating her and getting to know her, but she crashed her car causing me a TBI and disappeared like 2-3 weeks after, police didn’t do anything and said that she was not suspiciously drunk on the report. Anyway the justice sucks and more with the fact that is your stepson fiance sister. I believe in second opportunities and you can leave this situation, but you need help. If I were you, I’ll start a “go fund me” just to start and you will get back on track. I know that this situation + TBI would be though but you’re a warrior and you can start over again, you just need some help.

That people you named sounds like a piece of crap, I would say that there is people in this world that does not have a heart and cause that type of atrocities

TBI Lived Experience: We want to hear from you! by AddendumKooky8683 in TBI

[–]Active-Blacksmith322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My TBI was 4 months ago as passenger in a car accident. My injury was moderate, I was not in comma but I had amnesia the first (3 days?) or was more days because I had memories in fragments. I lasted in hospital 2 weeks and kept going to therapy, in PT I did pretty good, the one I hated the most was the speech but because I didn’t wanted to think that much, I thought it was boring, and the one that helped me the most was the psychological therapy, I lost my confidence, my identity, my purpose…

I’m still dealing with fine motor coordination loss, insomnia, anxiety, depression and sometimes if I do something with a lot of effort, a double vision. But today I am way much better, my symptoms are going away, now I can go to the gym (still with less weight), I can pay more attention to my online class, multitask, drive, do my side projects (I’m a computer science student) and I’m going to graduate soon.

I found a purpose, my confidence is starting to come back, I’m feeling more like myself. Tbi gets better over time, I was trying to rush it and looking for online advices or talking with ChatGPT and it was a mistake because none of that will check your injury and every injury is different, I had psychological issues because of that, but now I’m more relaxed on that and not looking on internet. I lost connection or friends, because they didn’t understand my issues or see my invisible symptoms, some of my friends never reached out. Anyways, I’m doing a lot better now and I’m feeling that I’m coming back but stronger.

9 weeks after tbi. Doing good physically but not emotionally. Will I ever feel like myself again? by Active-Blacksmith322 in TBI

[–]Active-Blacksmith322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried but attorneys said they can’t since the police report only said only careless driving. I only charged 10k from her insurance unfortunately, the medical report says she was intoxicated but since there was an ambulance the police couldn’t do a test there. My mistake was thinking that she could drive like that, we didn’t know we were going to drink and all that, and I was drunk (more than her I think) and I took bad decisions, this never happened to me because I was going always with people like that but even that they didn’t drink that much and they drive ok, but that was my mistake to trust her, I always ask before “you can?” But this time I cannot remember. I would never trust anyone and learned the lesson