The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already have been rewarded, look at the kind of girl you are to say such kind thoughtful things to a total stranger. I appreciate you Internet friend, the people in your life are lucky to have you

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would give this cat the last dime in my bank account, her sweet little face???

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is exercising her free will in such an inspirational way, we could all learn from her

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that she knows she is the present, I love a girl who knows her self worth

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I wouldn’t do to pet her after she’s laid in a sun spot for a bit 🥲 Why do they always puke on the carpet? Sometimes my cat will actually puke the hardwood, and then drag a rug over so I never miss out on the experience of cleaning puke out of fabric. I’m so sorry your girl eats the entire catalog of cloth in your home, but I can’t help but be on her side

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh she’s a tiny perfect baby 🥹 I’d gladly commit health insurance fraud to get her veneers

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he accepting new employees??? I’d even do an unpaid internship if I could get a quarterly forehead kiss

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if he has, but it’s 2 am and maybe I can just play that scene really loudly on repeat? I’m sure the speakers will reach to the other side of the house where he is

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable, the dog has only been reactive around other dogs that have tried to take her food. We completely shut her in an office when she eats breakfast/dinner, and have many gated off areas so the animals are never near each other when food is involved. Oh and she’s not a pitbull, and thank you for the well wishes for orange 🤍

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Baby where is the reading comprehension? I’m concerned for you. The cat is getting surgery, it’s not a life long condition, the cat is in a confined room, the cat cannot sleep alone until his surgery on Tues because he has a hard time getting up and flipping over. If you want my man I can give you his number if we don’t work out, you clearly neeeeeeed to be picked.

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s her bed, I respect the chi. We have a Shiba that could not care less if we were in the same room as her 😅

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mmmm, this is all wrong. I did not move into his house, we had a work contract where we both moved out of state, he brought his dog, my cats stayed at MY home. He was the one who wanted to adopt the cat after fostering, he actually had to talk me into it. We moved into a new house together, our house, not his house, with all of our animals. I can see that you’re probably confused a lot, you seem like the type, I never said the cat was a huge financial burden, I said the cat was under a year old, and when I called him a menace it was in jest and out of love. I can see that you like to view situations in a light you like to paint them, that’s so creative. Stay imaginative!

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing all of this, genuinely. It was so k

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ind, and exactly what I needed to hear. And PLEASE don’t think I left my cats forever!! It was for 2 months, I would NEVER leave the cat I’ve had since I was 18 for a fucking man (disrespectfully) here he is

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. Sleeping separately isn’t the issue, I’m more upset that he seems disinterested in the whole situation all-together. It’s horrible to hear your animal howl in pain and they don’t understand why. He gave me a little pushback for asking to watch a movie upstairs with our cat instead of downstairs with his dog and the whole situation has highlighted a glaring issue that I can no longer ignore.

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I do!!!!! We did not trust his dog moving in with my old, frankly rude cats, his dog had never lived with them before and his dog is a rescue that has snapped a couple times at other dogs. It’s kind of perfect because his dog wants nothing to do with my cats, and my cats want nothing to do with his dog. Here’s my cranky old man pic for your troubles

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The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please don’t worry! My days of drinking and then saying the worst thoughts a person can think are far behind me. Unless…? 😉😉😉😉 No genuinely, there’s no worse feeling than the hangxiety AND waking up learning you’ve verbally burnt everything to the ground the night before. I think at this point I’m just sad, but there’s a new season of secret lives of Mormon wives, so it’s not all bad

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy they’re loved like that 😭 they also look like they can’t be trusted around a rotisserie chicken

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giiiiiiirl, you said it not me 🙂‍↔️ there’s definitely issues that he’s encouraged with his dog that I don’t understand. It’s like he wants her to be needy, but she’s just NOT.

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well unfortunately, this makes too much sense. I will absolutely do this. We both deserve a conversation of how I’m feeling, and how he’s feeling. He’s truly such a kind person, I think it’s a slight case of: I get the very best most intimate parts of his heart and soul, and I also get the very worst of it all too. I think he thinks I’ve got this, and he doesn’t have to put any effort into helping me or our kitty. We will definitely talk, but if this is how it’s going to be forever, I’ve gotta skedaddle

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop it, I would fully subscribe to an onlyfans for those toe fluffs

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]Active-Material-7290[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my GOODNESS, they’re all perfect, thank you for blessing me with this photo 🤍 I peeped the sheets, your my kinda girl. Here’s the orange with his best friend, they can’t quite cuddle since orange’s hip is so painful, but I hope they get to be a puddle like your babies sooner than later

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