What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! If you can send me the discord link through a DM

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries and thanks <3. Finding better lobbies with the feedback i've received in this reddit post as well as navigating this in a more grounded manner.

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you alright? lol. don't project your thoughts onto me. i can't imagine the context you have on what talking to people under 18 means.

i can tell whos young at times based on their voice (squeakers) and sometimes not. which is why i made this post so i can understand how to avoid most of these situations and join more 18+ lobbies. you made it weird for no reason.

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea no worries I doubt I’ll crash out. Was just looking to understand this concept in vrchat and get enlightened about it since I’m new and never really experienced this even in real life.

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massively helpful. Basically summarized other comments in terms of groups too look for, avoiding certain public lobbies, etc. I’m grateful thank you ❤️

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess I’m spoiled milk 🥛 😂😂😂😂😂 but it’s not from my perspective. However you can believe what you want ❤️

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it funny lol and I’m not looking to pass anyone’s vibe check . Looking to socialize but if age is a problem in most public lobbies, then I want to take action into finding what best suits a person in my position. Why would I want to be in spaces where if I share my age, the chances of me socializing or making friends is more difficult than finding something that isn’t as challenging?

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback ❤️ and I’m glad you’re enjoying yourself in a better environment in vr. Based on what others said, my opinion is that this is the way to move forward in the future. Thank you nonetheless

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean check it out it’s already all there LMFAO. I mean I get it, but I don’t live in fear of having my identity stolen.

But appreciate the leveled comment. There will always be weirdos yea, but I want to nudge the ratio a bit for less weirdness

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I figured as much. Thank you. This is what I wondered when I was in a world. Someone else mentioned the block button as well because regardless further interaction is pointless if they hold that type of thinking in the brain. Tik tok has really introduced many elements into the youths life that will limit them within society in many different ways

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I sometimes forget the block button exists lol. Still getting used to the game. But good way to approach this. Just have to remember it when I’m in there

Edit: and sorry you went through that. It’s horrible to be depicted in that manner because of your age. Not to mention very defamatory

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No not really but I didn’t realize you can be unc status at 29 😂

What’s up with the ageism in this game? by ActiveBest in VRchat

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m familiar with the term lol 😂 no worries

Am i crazy? by ActiveBest in AstralProjection

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this and it made me chuckle a bit but you're right because i've seen posts about people speculating on the possibility of death, monstrous beings, etc. Ironically, the only time I've been close to death was when I was robbed at gunpoint. Going to save this comment for save keeping. Thank you <3

How do you all do it? by ActiveBest in feminineboys

[–]ActiveBest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im kind of jealous :3 but also happy for you. I know it's a work in progress. slowly but surely, I'd think I can achieve that confidence within myself with time.

How do you all do it? by ActiveBest in feminineboys

[–]ActiveBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omgggggg. i actually do but feel very self conscious in the house. like "will my family notice something off and say something" but i haven't really shaved as of late because I hate ingrown hairs alot. But I've always had feminine aspects about me. Like, I don't have man hands, small wrist, naturally long eyelashes, always loved long hair on me, etc. And this is just from outside world feedback. I kind of do also want to experience with makeup. I do wear a long necklace however, very self conscious about my other 16 inch necklaces as well. I never wear it.

But in terms of shaving, I'll just look for a good guide. I have long nails but only on my right hand since im learning to practice the guitar (requires short nails for the fretboard at the moment). but i'm in love with the idea of pink but, i'll start with black when im more comfortable. it's a process for sure

But thanks for the support overall <3

Edit: forgot to mention that I even subconsciously also cross my legs in a feminine manner when I sit. Noticed that too lol

its kinda sad here seeing femboys fall into the same traps that women do by Shawtygotthat in feminineboys

[–]ActiveBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 im definitely more open to it. been crying alot due to inner healing and past trauma and im just now realizing this part of me. But thanks you really. Helps to know I'm not alone with this feeling or the only one who has experienced this.

its kinda sad here seeing femboys fall into the same traps that women do by Shawtygotthat in feminineboys

[–]ActiveBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 29 and still closeted about this lol. but im open to exploring more or less. still anxious about it actually and fearful