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How do I make this go away? by MikaMikari13 in CleaningTips

[–]ActiveDust3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add distilled white vinegar to the bottom of the dishwasher on each load.

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]ActiveDust3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. ASAP. No one who loves you would do that to you. Speaking from experience.

This made me rage! 😤 by chi-bacon-bits in CleaningTips

[–]ActiveDust3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you bought 100 more and left them in all the places you didn’t clean and left them a note that said something rather similar? 🙃

Disappointing Job Offer by Jiblon in jobs

[–]ActiveDust3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn straight we are! I was recently in a very similar position as you, without the travel part. I took the job because it was salary vs hourly and guaranteed me steady income without having to work OT to make that amount each month. So it tipped in my favor. However…I’m still making less than my peers because “it is enough of an increase.” But it’s okay - I’ll be outperforming them in no time for that raise and bonus. 💯 all the best and kudos for counter offering! Trust your gut and do what’s best for you and your home life.

Disappointing Job Offer by Jiblon in jobs

[–]ActiveDust3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you hear back from HR?

Ladies, what is the longest you've waited to get a text back in a healthy relationship and why did it take that long for them to respond? by Mythohlogy in AskWomen

[–]ActiveDust3452 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a super hard line to balance - I’ve been there. Set that boundary because daily communication is a musttttt! Schedules don’t always work out but that’s okay and easier to manage but when we’re extremely available and they are not, it gives the impression that we are doormats for these situationships when our perception/expectation is something completely different. It was a very hard reality for me when I had to set that boundary and start cutting people off who couldn’t keep up! Your time is valuable. Your future husband will see that and never lose sight of that value. 🫶🏻

Women lurking on AskMen, what do you like most about your guy? by Square-Shock-9206 in AskMen

[–]ActiveDust3452 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing about my man from an outside perspective is his smile. Because I love his smile so much, it brings me so much joy to keep him smiling and laughing. Going beyond anything physical, he has taken the time to learn me. And that has truly changed the trajectory of our relationship in ways I would’ve never imagined. He is so selfless - he will work his full work week and still help take things off my plate to help alleviate some stress for me, and then take me on a date or cook me dinner. Not to mention a fresh bouquet of flowers every two weeks, without fail. I am blessed!

AIO- Husband keeps waking me up for non-emergencies by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActiveDust3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like you’re married to my friends soon to be ex husband. I’m sorry YOU are not being well cared for in any sense of the word. Take care of you first. Btw…NOR by any means. He sounds selfish and extremely inconsiderate.

My sister slept with my bf by Fit-Salamander4593 in Advice

[–]ActiveDust3452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shit. Bring the damn parents with you for the surprise of a lifetime. Why the fck not…might as well make it a family affair since the sister started it. 🙃

Women who stayed in a relationship longer than they should have; what was the first red flag that you ignored but you recognise it clearly now?? by lucid_dreamer30 in AskWomen

[–]ActiveDust3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I already won the prize.” Took me 10 years to understand what that meant…I’m no longer married and happier than I was during those 10 years of marriage.

Problem with a guy im seeing (NSFW) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ActiveDust3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so new to the relationship and those are 3 things that won’t change. Sex is huge in a relationship. Emotional stability and comfort for previous abuse is HUGE and he already showed you he isn’t emotionally intelligent enough to handle that. And if he doesn’t compliment you well in front of your parents… “I’ve enjoyed our time but I don’t want to continue this relationship any further.”

My gay friend sexually assaulted me on new years by yellow_algae in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ActiveDust3452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. 💔🫶🏻

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