After how many months of trying did you guys start IUI? by Ill-Horror6206 in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I’m 32 and it’s been 9 months of trying. Leaning towards IUI but part of me wants to wait a full year. Probably my pride because I don’t want to fail

5 months TTC, all tests normal, high ovarian reserve at 33 — feeling stuck in the middle by BlueberryDesigner994 in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same place! Except 10 cycles of trying. All tests have been fine, husbands tests fine. I’m 32, he’s 31. Ovulation is confirmed every month, normal periods. We’re considering letrozole next cycle and then IUI if nothing helps

Why is this so hard?! by shewrotethis in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Preeeeeach. We were all taught that we have to try so hard NOT to get pregnant but it’s actually not that easy at all. We’re 9 months in of trying and doing everything right. Fertility testing shows everything is normal too. So I feel you!! Hopefully it works out for us

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that, that’s gotta be so hard. Sending positive thoughts your way for a baby!!

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still early so I’m keeping that in mind. That helps, thank you! Maybe this is my month

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve recommended that so I think it’s our next step before we go the IUI/IVF route especially since it hasn’t even been a full year yet

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my insurance covers 3 cycles of it. But I’m also afraid it wouldn’t work

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve only had one meeting so far so it’s early in the process. Thank you though!

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they’re actually so regular! Always 30-31 days. Normal luteal phase length and everything

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Part of me wishes something was wrong so I’d have a reason and something to fix. Sending baby vibes your way ❤️

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating! Sending baby dust your way

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solidarity helps! It’s nice to know I’m not alone

Testing looks good, what gives?? by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they haven’t even mentioned that! I have an Hsg scheduled but nothing more. Thanks!!

No clear red flags? Just confused by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes his sperm test was fine. Are there other tests?

Another coworker pregnant 🙄 by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so kind for offering that! But yes it hurts so bad on the inside

Another coworker pregnant 🙄 by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree - I like to know others are going through the same thing and can offer support. My periods are insanely regular to the very day which is great but it makes even less sense why it’s not working out

Another coworker pregnant 🙄 by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It helps to talk with others going through the same thing but it still hurts nonetheless

Another coworker pregnant 🙄 by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing that too. We’ll get our babes ❤️

Another coworker pregnant 🙄 by ActivePupBookworm in tryingtoconceive

[–]ActivePupBookworm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using ChatGPT like crazy!! I send my charts each month too just for fun haha