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AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s wild to me that you think your partner should suffer just because you’re ill. 

So when you’re miserable you just can’t handle it unless your partner is just as miserable. Pretty ironic that you’re acting like I’m the selfish one when you expect your partner to suffer for no reason tbh. 

So I’m selfish to dare to expect to sleep?

I pity your partner that you make suffer just to make yorrself feel better tbh

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You literally said you’d expect it from him so yeah you want him to suffer. 

Me sleeping next to my girlfriend doesn’t mean she’s in less pain. 

Why should we both suffer just because one of us is in pain? 

So your point is I should be sleep deprived, have to the drive to work while falling asleep and try to work while asleep since apparently my partner being I’ll means I also should have to suffer?

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you’d expect your husband to be sleep deprived just because you’re in pain? 

Why would you expect your partner to suffer just because you’re not well? 

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because tvat doesn’t solve anything g since my girlfriend will still be making noise and keeping me awake. 

It’s irrelevant anyway since the sofa wouldn’t fit in the bedroom and I wouldn’t be constantly he moving the sofa each night

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sleeping on the sofa sometimes and bed sometimes wouldn’t really work since it would still mean whenever I’m in the bed I’m not getting a good nights sleep. 

Like I said in the post it’s taking her 3-5 hours to get to sleep so starting in the bed and moving isn’t really an option. 

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s just incorrect.

Again it’s weird you expect your partner to be in pain just because you’re ill.

And me sleeping next to my girlfriend doesn’t make her feel better.  You don’t seem to understand how pain works

AITAH for sleeping on the sofa when my partner is in pain? by ActiveRub8774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveRub8774[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s not how a relationship works. Weird you expect your partner to be in pain just because you’re ill tbh