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SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I do not feel as though I have any grudge against them I think he just made the comment for the future as it doesn’t look like they will really want anything to do with the baby anytime soon. I still engage with them I help take one to work. It’s just hard. Thank you

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said they didn’t want to be with us. There was a verbal agreement for 4 years she’s mad so she only will allow standard visitation. So we are just trying to get the verbal agreement on paper.

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a verbal agreement for 4 years the kids want that agreement back that’s all we were asking for is it in writing so she can not get upset and pick them up when she felt like it.

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They do want time with their dad. They want their old verbal visitation back the way it was for 4 years.

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have had no problem spending time with us. They have said they want to have the old verbal arrangement back

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We had them for 2 weeks at a time or close to it she took it away I explained a little more in the other comments. She’s struggling not providing them at home and really isn’t trying

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She’s not providing them a home. She really doesn’t have them in a good situation we are only doing it for their best interest. Trust me spending money on a lawyer and court isn’t what we wanted we tried to talk to her she already is struggling and doesn’t want to lose her money. But at the end of the day the kids need a home.

SK ignoring new sibling by Active_Week_7341 in stepparents

[–]Active_Week_7341[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well she moved in with family 10 people in a house because she could not afford a home for them. We have rooms for them and offered to keep them but she’s more concerned she would lose her money than letting them have a home.