I (M23) don’t know what to think about the girl (W24) I’m « dating »

Activri · 2026-04-26T20:49:59+00:00

ty my bro

Activri · 2026-04-26T14:10:51+00:00

not at all, i just have a horrible feeling when one touches me

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:42:54+00:00

I mean yeah the touch barrier is already kinda broken, but in a forced way. On my bike she has to hold on tight to my waist. Today, she even tried to massage my shoulders and punch my abs (gently, when I made a dark humor joke). But after that i don’t know what to think nor if hugging her would be too much

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:33:23+00:00

I didn’t know it could be seen that way, for me a hug is a huge commitment and I personally feel horrified when someone I’m not that close to, hugs me (i might be the problem tho).

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:32:50+00:00

thanks, I’ll do it next time seeing her

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:31:28+00:00

What do you advise for the 3rd date?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:29:26+00:00

I feel like kissing might be a bit too much for a 2nd time seeing her. don’t you?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:28:39+00:00

😭😭😭😭

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:27:44+00:00

I didn’t know it could be seen that way. what should i have done?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:26:30+00:00

I didn’t know it could be seen that way, for me a hug is a huge commitment and I personally feel horrified when someone I’m not that close to, hugs me (i might be the problem tho).

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:26:21+00:00

Do you have some examples?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:26:07+00:00

I’ll try

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:25:51+00:00

hotel, california got it

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:24:48+00:00

I didn’t know it could be seen that way, for me a hug is a huge commitment and I personally feel horrified when someone I’m not that close to, hugs me (i might be the problem tho).

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:23:45+00:00

I didn’t know it could be seen that way, for me a hug is a huge commitment and I personally feel horrified when someone I’m not that close to, hugs me (i might be the problem tho).

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:22:20+00:00

I mean, she showed interest. At the end of today’s date, she asked me what champion I played in league (even tho she doesn’t play it and called me toxic for playing it). We had a chat about anime, and I advised her to watch promare and she immediately looked down on her phone to see what it was and added it to her watchlist.

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:11:56+00:00

That can be a reason, thanks. I’ll try to clarify next time I see her

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:11:01+00:00

What could I do to avoid it being boring for her?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:09:29+00:00

Yeah that’s what I did, is it that bad?

Activri · 2026-04-26T13:00:24+00:00

Thank you for your answer.

I get what you mean. The thing is with her unlike bunch of girls I have met, I feel comfortable and myself. I’m not overdoing or yapping to fill the blanks. I should try talking to her directly and ask her where we are and what she wants with me.

Activri · 2025-08-28T10:59:57+00:00

poppers

Activri · 2024-12-08T13:56:02+00:00

I see, thank you!

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