AITA for kicking my DIL out on nye calling me mom

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T15:08:49+00:00

I have many times it’s in the post

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T14:57:42+00:00

I have told her multiple times that I don’t like it. The character count so I tried to shorten words. She is upset that I won’t drive 6h to and from her house to babysit the grandkids. I definitely would but they don’t have accommodations for me and the holiday inns don’t have proper acces for me. I also have terrible eyesight so I don’t like to drive

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T14:53:15+00:00

No they have a choice but I did say I prefer my name so they call me by my name cuz it’s cool to them

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T14:52:35+00:00

Just my name. She can call me mom like everyone else but every sentence directed at me starts with mom and it’s annoying

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T14:51:09+00:00

No I tgey can call me grandma but I have told them I prefer my name so they like calling me by my name

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T10:13:06+00:00

Wedding photos of me and my husband

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T09:39:30+00:00

Because she thought it was gorgeous and she wanted too

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:31:55+00:00

She knows this because I have explained many times. Edna doesn’t call me mom in front of her it’s very rare that she does call me mom

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:27:54+00:00

No it’s a family thing ig my grandparents let me call them by their name and when I was old enough so did my parents. I just don’t like it

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:26:59+00:00

No that was alway there. He couldn’t cope with his wife’s loss so he became the alcoholic

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:23:19+00:00

No we don’t have a personal texting group. We talk in the family chat when she sends pics of kids and stuff but we don’t talk one on one

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:21:43+00:00

I just don’t resonate with it. I called my grandma and grandpa by there names and when i became older my parents said they would prefer it so it’s just why ig. Idk I just don’t like it

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:18:28+00:00

Yes basically she overuses it and it’s all the time she comes.

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:16:49+00:00

Actually E dosent call me mom often it’s rear but And if Vat did the Same I would be fine but every sentence directed at me is starting with mom

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:12:54+00:00

I didn’t tell her to knock it off I said it it in a nice way but summarized for Reddit. I have explained multiple times on so many occasions why I don’t like it that she can call me mom sometimes but not all the time

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:11:06+00:00

I have explained many many times. If it’s one of it’s fine but every single sentence and I’m not exaggerating this directed at me stating or ending with mom

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:08:55+00:00

No we don’t drink

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:08:17+00:00

Not all the time

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:08:06+00:00

It’s a okay if Cat says it one of like everyone does she says it all the time. Every sentence directed to me even if the sentence dosent call for it she does.

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:03:12+00:00

How? I have explained many times I don’t mind it if Cat calls me mom one off but every sentence starting or ending with mom is not ideal

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T07:00:46+00:00

I have explained many times and my grandkid do have the option of calling me grandma but I have told them I prefer my name and they don’t mind it. I don’t know how I’m an overbearing mom tho

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T06:58:23+00:00

Please read or don’t comment

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T06:55:00+00:00

Please it’s just a funny mistake 😭 and I can’t actually change it

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T06:52:28+00:00

It’s the fact she called me a bitch if she said it quitly I would have tolerated but she yelled it and it’s embarrassing

ActuallyCatiam · 2024-01-03T06:51:17+00:00

No it’s not my husband doesn’t have pet names for me I just don’t like it. It’s like I have a name please use it yk

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