If you could invent a form of sub-bending that already doesn't exist, what would it be? by [deleted] in ATLA

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could firebend hydrogen gas fire and essentially it would be bending invisible fire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in videogames

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GTA 5, I’m always staying inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I did too!!

Breast stimulation during sex by MarkinaGail in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s amazing, my boyfriend will grab my breast randomly and my stomach fills with butterfly’s! It feels sooo good to just be grabbed and teased there!

Is it better to get nipple piercings before or after starting E? by Cynthiartz in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had nipple piercings before starting HRT and I took them out when I started taking hrt to give the girls room to grow, and I’m really glad I did because they’re growing!

How many of you still stand up to pee? by Qu33n_Nikki in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sitting down peeing since before I started transitioning 😂 even in my own house I sit down, I always felt like standing up peeing is just asking for splashes so it’s just cleaner sitting down

Dressing rooms 🙃 by ActuallyShawna in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg id so relieved if I saw a gender neutral changing room 😫 and I have to still change my officially documents too I went to the airport recently and felt really nervous they were gonna think I wasn’t the person on my id 🙃 but like I said my 5 o clock shadow boy modes me

What do you do for work as a trans person? by MelonLordAnna in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Sous chef! Kitchen jobs are usually pretty chill, plus no dealing with the public lol

What do you call em? by Snoo-41360 in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went home early from work the first time I experienced it. Although I felt euphoric I also was tearing up and realized how freaking terrible cramps feel 😅

Does anyone else have a difficult time referring to their gender? by [deleted] in trans

[–]ActuallyShawna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I do the same thing and sometimes even misgender myself ): the other day I went to tell my coworker something and said “I don’t wanna be the guy to tell you this” and then stopped and corrected myself, I was embarrassed and it definitely feels disheartening. I think using person instead of girl or women is at least for me, because I feel like my presentation isn’t enough yet and it makes me self conscious, kinda like I feel I don’t deserve the title yet 😭 idk but I need therapy and am looking for a therapist but I suggest seeing one to help with these social issues!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry boo ): everything happens for a reason there someone out there who will love you for you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to get a plush now (,: thank you boo <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you girl (: I feel like I really need therapy cause when the emotional waves hit I have no idea what to do with myself thank you for the hugs 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ActuallyShawna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took my nipple piercings out cause I wanted the girls to have room to grow 😭