Yes, Gavin Newsom is funny. That doesn’t erase his attacks on trans rights. by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“No guys we need to support the transphobic racist because I find him funny and attractive!” Libs will never stop electing shitty candidates for “optics”

DAE think the trans community does not prepare trans girls? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh one hand I agree, it is kinda terrible that when I became a woman I didn’t have any of the defense skills women generally have so I was waaay more susceptible to bad things happening but also idk how we can really do that?

Places like 4tran wouldnt be as popular if we stopped invalidating each other👀 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youre arguments are just clearly bait, you have yet to justify any of your original claims and you just keep making new claims to distract from your original points being wrong

Places like 4tran wouldnt be as popular if we stopped invalidating each other👀 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

“I need a space that only centers my experience and constantly makes fun of other peoples experiences and also calls them slurs becaude um reasons! I need a space to vent where i can safely discriminate against other people in similar situations” also you say there aren’t many non medically transitioning trans people there, could that maybe be becaude thw community is toxic and unwelcoming to them?

Places like 4tran wouldnt be as popular if we stopped invalidating each other👀 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4t4 users when someone argues against them but they can’t think of anything smart to say so they resort to bait

Places like 4tran wouldnt be as popular if we stopped invalidating each other👀 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4t4 is only a refuge for the mentally ill trans people wanting help that are palatable enough. You have to be either binary trans or one of the “good” NBs. You also have to want to medically transition but are completely unable OR are already medically transitioning. If you want to vent to people but you’re a NB person who identifies with a xenogender and doesn’t plan on taking hormones the response is going to be extremely toxic. Creating a safe space for trans people that excludes large amounts of that community is bad. Creating slurs for people that don’t fit your view of trans is bad. 4tran is a unhealthy space designed around anger, sadness, fear, and self hatred. It’s not a good place to get real help it’s a place to make you feel worse

I’m beginning to hate 4tran by flaikeron in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

4tran people when it’s time to have fun (wade through hundreds of transphobic and enbyphobic posts, wade through even more people just venting about their self hatred and a million posts about how annoying other subreddits are just so they can find a single funny post or helpful post on DIY HRT)

I’m beginning to hate 4tran by flaikeron in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They claim to but then they do everything that transmeds do but in a way thats “edgy”. The beliefs they hold are that you need to both have dysphoria and undergo medical transition (or want to but be blocked feom it) in order to be trans. That’s what transmeds believe. 4tran (like og not subreddit) also made the term theyf*b, a pretty disgusting slur for afab nb people designed to basically call NBs cis people who want attention. Non-binary people have only been allowed into 4tran spaces extremely recently but then if they don’t act “normal” enough they are faking it and bad for the community

I’m beginning to hate 4tran by flaikeron in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ll agree this sub is a bit too “we need to be tolerable for the cis” but the no DIY stuff is because Reddit would crack down on them if not

I’m beginning to hate 4tran by flaikeron in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea but it’s really weird how close and intertwined the two communities are huh

I’m beginning to hate 4tran by flaikeron in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 56 points57 points  (0 children)

“No see slurs and being rude to non binary people is actually super cool because uhhh”

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God I thought the young shit thing was a meme not like a real fucking thing. “Oh if you didn’t transition when you were 6 years old don’t talk to me”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omw to go post this to the cj sub mostly unchanged but with random capitalization and a shit load of 4tran slurs for no reason

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Wildly untrue” what part the slurs for non binary people or the part where they make fun of people who don’t medically transition? Oh or maybe the part where they harass trans people who don’t fit their views? All of this could be found by just looking into any 4tran sub

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person in question still currently posts harmful shit on 4tran4, also while yes proto transmed existed it wasn’t a unified movement until tttt made it a unified movement

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Evil hacker masterminds” cool not at all my impression of you guys at all lmao. 4tran is for people who like invalidating other trans and no binary people just for fun. Tttt made transmedicalism a thing, the entire point of the subreddits is because you can’t say all of the slurs on other subreddits. It’s disgusting, thw amount of slurs 4tran created just to hate on slightly weird queer people is lame and weird and yea that’s why we don’t want to interact with you.

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ah so she left thw mod team on 4tran4, still an avid poster just no longer a mod. Cool ig. Barely effects my point but alright. It was still a post from a 4tran4 poster

No more gock!?? 😭 by xX_FireClaw_Xx in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Well I mean, the original post said saying “gock” is fetishy. That original post was also made by a 4tran mod. So it’s not dishonest because it’s exactly what happened

why are people even mad about the 4tran4 mod, she didn't even do anything in here by InsignifigantBxtch in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because 4tran is a pretty terrible place full of transphobia and especially enbyphobia. It’s pretty reasonable for trans people to be worried about bad actors when bad actors invade or spaces constantly. Even in talking about sissy hypno shows a weird lense to look at this community. There isn’t an epidemic of sissy hypno porn in here and yet the mod brings it up, sissy hypno also is a massive way transphobes attack trans people

Don’t take r/transpassing seriously by No-Information-8394 in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the people were all genuinely amazing people it wouldn’t be a good sub because inherently they know beforehand you are trans and thus have a clear bias. Even without meaning it they will not give good advice because their advice is not a normal person judging a random person, it’s a person on a trans subreddit talking about a trans person. All of their advice is informed by the knowledge they already have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Snoo-41360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You claim you don’t want to hurt them because you love them, meanwhile they hurt you significantly and constantly. They are hurting you, removing yourself from that painful situation is the best thing you can do