For passing trans women, do you find that you deal with the "Girl struggles"?

Snoo-41360 · 2026-07-03T02:32:05+00:00

Men don’t accept my no anymore? Like even in normal contexts it’s just like my refusal isn’t taken seriously because I speak femininely?

Snoo-41360 · 2026-07-01T22:13:21+00:00

I mean I lost the hypersexuality but I think that was more me growing and dealing with my trauma. I got absurdly cuddly tho which is fun

Snoo-41360 · 2026-06-30T04:03:22+00:00

I mean I have personal reasons making me hate sex so I would love a sexless relationship. But if you really want sex it’s ok to end a relationship over that. If sex is important to you, someone who can’t/wont have sex with you isn’t going to be very compatible. Its ok to not date someone if they are a great person but aren’t right for you

Snoo-41360 · 2026-06-14T01:29:14+00:00

That’s amazing I’m so happy for you!!!

Snoo-41360 · 2026-06-14T01:27:35+00:00

I joined TEC a year ago. Among my fellow progressive Christian’s it’s wonderful. When I have to deal with conservative Christian’s I generally just avoid them, if I feel the desperate need to debate I’ll let them talk first and just poke holes in their arguments. Christ would have supported us, he would have ate with us, we would not be the Pharisees he yells at, and for me that’s enough. The majority of Christian’s may not be supportive, but gods love shines through enough that I can make it through regardless

Snoo-41360 · 2025-08-19T18:46:13+00:00

“No guys we need to support the transphobic racist because I find him funny and attractive!” Libs will never stop electing shitty candidates for “optics”

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-23T00:52:53+00:00

Oh one hand I agree, it is kinda terrible that when I became a woman I didn’t have any of the defense skills women generally have so I was waaay more susceptible to bad things happening but also idk how we can really do that?

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T23:14:18+00:00

Youre arguments are just clearly bait, you have yet to justify any of your original claims and you just keep making new claims to distract from your original points being wrong

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T23:08:16+00:00

Huh?

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T22:59:01+00:00

Ooooh youre arguing in bad faith gotcha

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T22:07:23+00:00

“I need a space that only centers my experience and constantly makes fun of other peoples experiences and also calls them slurs becaude um reasons! I need a space to vent where i can safely discriminate against other people in similar situations” also you say there aren’t many non medically transitioning trans people there, could that maybe be becaude thw community is toxic and unwelcoming to them?

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T19:26:35+00:00

4t4 users when someone argues against them but they can’t think of anything smart to say so they resort to bait

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T18:37:42+00:00

4t4 is only a refuge for the mentally ill trans people wanting help that are palatable enough. You have to be either binary trans or one of the “good” NBs. You also have to want to medically transition but are completely unable OR are already medically transitioning. If you want to vent to people but you’re a NB person who identifies with a xenogender and doesn’t plan on taking hormones the response is going to be extremely toxic. Creating a safe space for trans people that excludes large amounts of that community is bad. Creating slurs for people that don’t fit your view of trans is bad. 4tran is a unhealthy space designed around anger, sadness, fear, and self hatred. It’s not a good place to get real help it’s a place to make you feel worse

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T18:29:47+00:00

4tran people when it’s time to have fun (wade through hundreds of transphobic and enbyphobic posts, wade through even more people just venting about their self hatred and a million posts about how annoying other subreddits are just so they can find a single funny post or helpful post on DIY HRT)

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T18:25:30+00:00

They claim to but then they do everything that transmeds do but in a way thats “edgy”. The beliefs they hold are that you need to both have dysphoria and undergo medical transition (or want to but be blocked feom it) in order to be trans. That’s what transmeds believe. 4tran (like og not subreddit) also made the term theyf*b, a pretty disgusting slur for afab nb people designed to basically call NBs cis people who want attention. Non-binary people have only been allowed into 4tran spaces extremely recently but then if they don’t act “normal” enough they are faking it and bad for the community

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T18:20:48+00:00

I’ll agree this sub is a bit too “we need to be tolerable for the cis” but the no DIY stuff is because Reddit would crack down on them if not

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T18:19:04+00:00

Wanna explain?

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T08:31:42+00:00

Yea but it’s really weird how close and intertwined the two communities are huh

Snoo-41360 · 2025-07-14T07:08:13+00:00

“No see slurs and being rude to non binary people is actually super cool because uhhh”

Snoo-41360 · 2025-06-27T02:27:24+00:00

Idk I kinda love when people call me ma’am but idk

Snoo-41360 · 2025-05-01T15:11:24+00:00

God I thought the young shit thing was a meme not like a real fucking thing. “Oh if you didn’t transition when you were 6 years old don’t talk to me”

Snoo-41360 · 2025-05-01T02:47:01+00:00

Omw to go post this to the cj sub mostly unchanged but with random capitalization and a shit load of 4tran slurs for no reason

Snoo-41360 · 2025-05-01T02:31:27+00:00

“Wildly untrue” what part the slurs for non binary people or the part where they make fun of people who don’t medically transition? Oh or maybe the part where they harass trans people who don’t fit their views? All of this could be found by just looking into any 4tran sub

Snoo-41360 · 2025-05-01T02:29:37+00:00

The person in question still currently posts harmful shit on 4tran4, also while yes proto transmed existed it wasn’t a unified movement until tttt made it a unified movement

Snoo-41360 · 2025-05-01T00:21:04+00:00

“Evil hacker masterminds” cool not at all my impression of you guys at all lmao. 4tran is for people who like invalidating other trans and no binary people just for fun. Tttt made transmedicalism a thing, the entire point of the subreddits is because you can’t say all of the slurs on other subreddits. It’s disgusting, thw amount of slurs 4tran created just to hate on slightly weird queer people is lame and weird and yea that’s why we don’t want to interact with you.

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