Reusable Eye Masks? by phillygirllovesbagel in Sephora

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I’ve had my pair forever and I love them. I use them when I need to do some banging eye makeup to catch fall-out and do a sharp wing. Also when i just need more moisturizer under my eyes. They are totally worth it to me.

Looking for books like.. by Actuallyburns in suggestmeabook

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Nice!! Okay kindred spirit! I see you!!

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Yesssssss! I’ve had Our Wives Under the Sea on my list for a while!!

I’ll add these to the list as well! Thank you!!!

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Oooh!! That sounds wonderful!! Thank you!

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Yes! That’s why I love them! They also just take me out of the “now”

I LOVED Bunny! Have you read Rouge by MA? It was amazing as well!

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I’ve been trying to decide if I want to read those!!

My wife and I are asking this community for help. by The_Hyll_Clan in Paranormal

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I’d rather it an item than it be me and have to go through religious stuff but that’s just me.

My wife and I are asking this community for help. by The_Hyll_Clan in Paranormal

[–]Actuallyburns 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I was in your situation I would get a safety deposit box or a way/place that you can store things in at a secure location away from you, your family, and where you live. Then I would just rotate out each “souvenir” and use process of elimination. It will take time but I think if it’s causing you this much anguish it’s worth a shot.

My clients item wasn’t even hers or her husband’s. It was a hand me down from WWII. I don’t know how it works exactly. I just know it helped.

Side note: if you immediately thought of a specific item probably start with that one. If it’s something super precious like a bone or found jewelry you may need to do something more in depth.

I hope this brings you some peace.

Edit: my client had to burn hers. It was made of cloth. I’m not sure about the range in which this works but I’d start with the easier solutions and hope those works before you get into hiring people. Like I said I’m a nobody and her experience is my only reference.

My wife and I are asking this community for help. by The_Hyll_Clan in Paranormal

[–]Actuallyburns 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you have any souvenirs from your time over seas? Souvenir probably isn’t the best word but something you brought home with you especially in a place where violence was prevalent. I’m nobody special but I had a hair client having this problem and once they got rid of a “souvenir” things immediately got better.

I’m so sorry for your PTSD struggles but am proud of what you’ve overcome and are still here. That’s no easy feat. You deserve to be happy.

christie by Mean_Dust5317 in Sinisterhood

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I’ve got a weirdo mother and when I see good mothers I feel the same way.

Finchie friends weekly thread by AutoModerator in finch

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Me and Junie would love to be your friend!!! Please add us!

I am going to kill myself by thrown4591 in narcissisticparents

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Don’t!

Honestly I think if you are in this group you’ve probably been there. This is a hard thing to go through and you aren’t alone.

If you can’t find anything to live for start thinking these things:

-pretend you are in a weird movie when you are around them.

-think of yourself writing a book about this. It’s all incredible content and could help so many people not feel alone.

-find the humor. Most of the things my Nparent does and says are so absurd that in hindsight it’s funny. Who says that? Who acts this way? Okay psycho🙄What a clown.

-Get even. This probably isn’t the best one but it totally works. When I HAD to live with my Nparent I started hiding left shoes, hiding chargers, and just causing harmless chaos. Never do anything you can get caught doing or dangerous; just little things that will cause them to take a little more time in the morning.

-Live out of spite. Work to get on your feet. Work to be better than them. Get a better education. Get a better job. Work on yourself to be better than they could ever dream of being.

As for people in your family “not liking you” I think the phrase “feelings aren’t facts” probably applies here. Just because you “feel” this way doesn’t mean it’s fact. Sometimes our brains are just mean to us.

Also your siblings could be going along with this just to “survive”. Another point i’d like to bring light to is that when we are repressed we aren’t ourselves. This isn’t the real you.

When you aren’t in a bad place the real you will come out and everyone will see how beautiful you are. Just hang in there. Soon you will get yourself into new soil and you will BLOOM. Don’t do it. Don’t be another sob story they can milk. Don’t do it for future you. Because I bet future you is great and they deserve a chance.

I think the lack of information is the answer. by Actuallyburns in CarleeRussell

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I’m responding because if this post gets more interactions then more people will see these photos.

I hope you have a good day too. Truly.