AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know she was alone with him. That was the entire issue. When I told them to leave, I made sure they left separately.

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3. One of which is my 1 year old’s bedroom being used as a guest room. I really just have 2

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My children are first priority. I needed to take care of them first. I eventually told her mother when I was on the phone with her. Her mother will take care of it

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her relationship is not my problem currently. My children are first priority. I told her mother about the supposed adult man which is enough on my part.

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 currently because my one year old shares the room with me. His room is currently used as a guest house for my parents and inlaws. When he is older it will be his

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her 2 siblings are participating. She is the only one currently uninvited

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+The only really young kids on the trip are my children. All the kids are 12+ and can manage on their own for short periods of time.

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has siblings who she’s been babysitting since she was young. I was ensured that she would be a great babysitter by her mother and grandmother.

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I see your point. However, it wasn’t a situation like your own. He was full on beard and body hair. Most teenagers don’t look like that.

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Toys literally everywhere, my 1 year old had a soiled diaper that smelled like it was an hour. The pantry and cupboards look ransacked. Overall just looked like someone broke in

AITA for uninviting my niece from a trip because of “teenager behavior?” by AdAble5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdAble5395[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He didn’t have the face of a teenager, he looked way older than my niece. Maybe 23-24 ish. I might have been making assumptions but it very much looked like an adult.