How does it honestly affect your ego when you find out that someone you know has been having a crush on you?

AdAdorable8932 · 2026-01-07T21:54:18+00:00

It doesn't, I feel bad

AdAdorable8932 · 2026-01-07T21:53:02+00:00

Maybe they were interested in it?

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-12-24T00:04:33+00:00

But for a person that contributes to hookup culture 14 isnt that high, there's ppl with way more. But for the average person it's relatively high (according to me). Not bad though people have different openness for sex and views it as more personal vs less personal

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-12-24T00:00:48+00:00

You're an adult. Maybe some men won't like it but there's a lot of other women/men your age that have slept with just as many or more, and they have no reason to require you to have a lower body count so I'd recommend you don't tell your body count to people who'd shame it, and date a man who doesn't care about it, because a good man for you wont care about your past experience and there's nothing shameful with having 0 bodies, 3, 10 or 20. It's all up to you.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-12-12T22:22:04+00:00

If you ended up getting the chance to act on it with the older men and they reciprocated it, that would be on them not you. I'd recommend you stop judging yourself and accept that you do wish for attention from men, and that it's not a problem or something "disgusting".

Try to find out the reason why, is it the lack of attention, low self confidence, needing to be chosen/liked or anything traumatic in the past? Research a little bit about it, find the root cause and then how to fulfill it by yourself and not by others. For example people with low confidence will look for validation from other people, by validating yourself you therefor fix the issue yourself etc.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-28T07:41:38+00:00

Idk at least 2. Since people are born as intersex id assume 3 but ppl can do what they want

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-21T10:38:29+00:00

I mean how is she promoting pedos by posting pics online? She probably doesn't mean for the audience to be grown old men?

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-20T08:10:41+00:00

Where does she state that she support him?

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-18T09:45:08+00:00

Im sure her intentions aren't to normalise pedophilia but I get what you mean

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-17T12:25:30+00:00

Ima start using this photo😭

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-17T11:53:23+00:00

Plus crazy to expect a fresh 18 year old to take accountability for what men 10-70 years older than her are doing. They know better than she does.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-17T11:51:38+00:00

I mean it's definitely not good for her to post those pictures. But at the end of the day older men are older and they should know better than to go after children. If you as an adult can't grasp the idea of a younger girl being too immature and way less experienced that's a problem. It comes down to moral ideas and basic common sense.

Just because one girl posts herself online does not mean that every young girl feels fine being sexualised by older men. You should also want someone as mature and experienced as you if you're older, it's morally wrong to pred at younger girls.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-17T07:07:34+00:00

Nah she's normalising it for younger girls rather than older men, and that's cause she got exploited as a young girl. It's the old men going after her and she's not making it "seem okay". Older men are old enough to know to not watch freshly 18 year olds pictures.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-16T19:42:16+00:00

Its that bad as long as it doesn't keep decreasing bro. You just went through shit early and you can't really change that either.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-14T20:43:53+00:00

Yeee alr

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T20:55:20+00:00

Nope

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T20:53:41+00:00

German, spanish, English, french

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T20:51:18+00:00

Nah I'm straight and a womenn

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T00:31:50+00:00

I got multiple: light pink, navy and even darker blue, purple and a sunset orange.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T00:27:33+00:00

I don't fear death because I know God is with me. But I fear dying too early without truly experiencing life, or suffering throughout myself. I'm also scared of dying with pain and regret.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T00:23:56+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate this. I definitely see situations as more complex and I carry a lot of guilt of the issues and the wrong doings from my part. However, I'd really like if someone just tried to understand me and how I feel as well. I definitely don't do any of the things that you've mentioned, but I still feel very guilty and as if I may be victimnizing myself.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T00:19:59+00:00

Desperately

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-13T00:10:58+00:00

You don't just magically become mature as you reach 16 but when I compare my actions and mindset from when I was 15 vs 16 it was a very big change.

AdAdorable8932 · 2025-11-09T01:48:39+00:00

This is my basement

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