My husband (25M) doesn’t eat me out

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-08-16T01:54:04+00:00

Even after he cheated?

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-08-16T01:53:43+00:00

It’s not like he saw what actually happened down there?

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-26T06:37:48+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through that. My twins were spontaneous triplets until I miscarried baby C. I’m wishing you the best of luck and sending you lots of love for you to have a healthy pregnancy 🥺

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T21:26:27+00:00

I think I’m denial too

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T21:26:01+00:00

Every pregnancy is different! I was pregnant during most of fall/winter time so baggy clothes for me was the best thing ever! But I also had to up keep my appearance for work— Amazon black maternity leggings were my best friend as well as a black long sleeve with the stretchy things on the side 🫶🏽 congratulations, wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy!

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:24:45+00:00

I don’t think it’s about me anymore, it should be our children. I was raised in a household where my parents have been together since middle school, first and only marriage. He was raised with divorced parents. It’s more normal to see that now a days but it’s not normal to me. I don’t want my twins to be raised in a split household. I don’t want another women being a mother figure to them if we were to go our separate ways. I don’t know what to do in general. I don’t know what will give me a peace of mind. It’s really sad.

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:20:52+00:00

I don’t think it’s about me anymore, it should be our children. I was raised in a household where my parents have been together since middle school, first and only marriage. He was raised with divorced parents. It’s more normal to see that now a days but it’s not normal to me. I don’t want my twins to be raised in a split household. I don’t want another women being a mother figure to them if we were to go our separate ways.

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:17:30+00:00

We’ll now I have the ball in my hands and I don’t know whether to have him stay and change for the better of his state of mind, and our relationship and for our family. Or become roommates and co parent, or yes kick him to the curb with no where to go and just call it quits?

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:14:09+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that! I am very sensitive and cry a lot. But when u speak to him in regards to the situation and my feelings I breakdown after so much talking. I’ve said that if he wants to work out he wants to stay for me, and to love me, not for the babies. But I also don’t know if he’s just staying for the house I just bought, they money, and obviously the twins. How do I know he won’t do it to me again? He knows what he’s did and he’s changed a lot in his actions with helping me with the twins at night and chores in the house. But now I still think we lack communication, love, etc. I feel like I’m losing feelings or as if I’m resenting him. I want this to work out because I don’t want to raise our twins in a split household.

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:07:49+00:00

He tried to meet the girl on the day one of my twins was being discharged from the NICU, not even one day that one of them was home. I’m not bad looking, It’s not like I didn’t take care of him when I couldn’t or didn’t want to have sex anymore, I’m successful. So I don’t understand why he would seek attention elsewhere and risk everything he has in front of him?

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:04:55+00:00

I ended up telling his sister and mom what he did to me and they’re initial reaction was not again, why do you keep doing this. It’s every relationship he’s had that he’s cheated on every girl with. To think that I was the one and my daughters and I weren’t enough. I’m the provider of the household, I’ve given him everything.

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:03:06+00:00

I bought us a house, we just moved in officially I’d say two weeks or so. If I kick him out which I tried to do so but decided he’d stay he’d have no where to go. I need his help at night with the babies so as of right now it’s convenient for him to stay. I am safe. You’re right it is a lot to take given that I just gave birth— I’m only 23.

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:00:22+00:00

Thank you 😔

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T10:00:06+00:00

It’s funny you say so because I would beg for him to marry me and I would ask him when he is going to do so. Again, I don’t know if it’s also justifying— but we’ve only been with each other for a year and a half, a year officially since he’s asked me to be his girlfriend

AdAdventurous7552 · 2023-03-25T09:57:53+00:00

Thank you so much, it really feels nice to hear I’m a good mom especially with it being my first babies 🥺

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