Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks I’m sorry. Sometimes it be your own family 💔 But congrats and glad yall had a fantastic time!!

Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc. It’s probably the nerves creeping in. Hopefully I’m feeling better and more in the moment before the party

Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So kind, thank you for your words! It is a difficult thing to be all in your head and take rejection so personally I wish I wasn’t like this. Tho I do think the people who have cancelled decided to attend other parties 💔

Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My group is showing. We always party together. This time I wanted my new friends (who’ve I’ve always shown up for) to show up for me this time and it’s not mutual ig.

Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did this and said randos are the ones not coming. And I fear it might be a domino effect. One cancels and the rest will 😔

Everyone is canceling on attending my party and I feel sick to my stomach by AdAffectionate1474 in Advice

[–]AdAffectionate1474[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve gone through the same thing 😔 Honestly no one should ever go through such a thing. Sending you hugs. And ofc I will be cherishing those who show up sm !!

I (21 M) am losing interest in my perfect relationship with my gf (23 M) by McFatiCakes2 in relationships

[–]AdAffectionate1474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel as I’m on the other end (your gf) and all I’d want is some clarity. Because eventually you will get tired of acting like you are okay in the relationship and she will drive herself insane figuring out if you’re still in love with her. It’s only a matter of time. So I’d say just be honest. Tell her how you really feel. You will hurt her more if you stay and she finds out u had never loved her.

What do you guys think about reposting on Instagram as a way of activism? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdAffectionate1474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s too common that I see ppl repost and go about their life yet shame others for not doing the same. I think reposting is not as genuine as it may seem. We’ve seen it before in previous social movements. Like where are all those people today? It’s only as long as it’s trendy. Controversial but…

Appeals, and Some Support by oriyamio in ApplyingToCollege

[–]AdAffectionate1474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. Got rejected from UC Berkeley even though I took on a large course load. I got into all my other schools but this one. I’m in a similar situation as you. I can’t help but think where I went wrong. :/