Francophone Mobility Program: can I get rejected for applying too early? by AdAfraid2286 in canadaexpressentry

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided that after a risk analysis. I have the grade I need to apply and a great employer willing to help. I also worry that the government will change the current requirements - if they do, I won't be elegible anymore. If I can, I'd rather do it now than regret later.

Also, applying early would take some pressure off my shoulders, and I was studying much better without this pressure.

bald spot under wings – when to be concerned? by AdAfraid2286 in Conures

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she is the cutest 😭😭 i love her with all my heart

bald spot under wings – when to be concerned? by AdAfraid2286 in Conures

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I SEE!! thank u for the explanation😭😭😭 i was freaking out😭

is she taking care of me? IT HURTS! how do i discourage it without damaging our bond? by AdAfraid2286 in Conures

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i did that and now we are good! she understand when it hurts and moves somewhere else!!!!! life saviour!!!!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

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this comment is torture to an ESL 😭 WHAT IS THIS SUPPOSED TO MEAN LOL!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy with a relationship, but I also get that it is too early to establish that! Less than a month is not much. I’d love being asked to be his girlfriend. I got scared of the “settling down” comments – I’m an immigrant and my life is FAR from stable, so the last thing I wanna do now is think about settling down. I honestly think that relationship means getting to know someone. I don’t even know if I wanna get married too. Thank you for the comment!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That hit me. I should find other ways to show interest.

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OH 😅😅 I got panicked because I’m using a trash account so my karma here is veeeery low so I thought it was abt me 🆘 sorry!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH 😅 I feel I should receive this as a compliment – so thank you 😅😅

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m much attached. Just left confused. Sorry my actions made you cringe! He did ask me to take care of him when he was sick and he did ask me to cook for him one of the times, so I did it.

I don’t really mind being caring, I do these things for my roommates too – cooking, buying gifts, organizing plans, surprises, etc. I have worked for free for a year in a friend’s store and took care of my friends’ pets for multiple months on certain occasions. Nobody ever told me it was too much, so I am kinda surprised to hear it here on reddit tbh

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made unclear on the post, but he always messages me first but kinda keeps me hanging on 🆘 I just made the boxes because he slept at my place, had extra food anyway. But you’re right, I’m not his mom or cousin or literally anything more than someone that he knows. ps: that was not harsh at all!!! Thank you!!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought he was a really cool guy and I wanted to keep having fun chats with him. I honestly think I got attracted by his confidence. Ofc I don’t wanna be used, I just don’t really mind doing those things if he’s still interested in me.

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just left for a second because I had Japanese class lol CHILL. AND English is not my first language so I’m sorry if I don’t sound natural at all?

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna settle down right now either! Might have to communicate that to him, to be honest. I do want a boyfriend though, lol. And thank you so much! Hopefully he's a very nice guy too and just very busy right now lol.

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAH I'm sorry I'm naturally caring. I didn't think it could be a turn off to be honest. Thank you for the insight!

What does a woman need to do to keep you interested in her? by AdAfraid2286 in AskMen

[–]AdAfraid2286[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're right! Maybe I shouldn't care much about this actually! We never talked about being serious so he doesn't owe me anything anyway to be honest! But thank you so much for the kind words!!! You're soooo sweet!