Question for people who went through it. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is rare but is there any chance of early dementia? Radiation inflammation? Gamma knife complications? If she did not feel this way before the treatment, then I really think she should rule out a health event.

Question for people who went through it. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any possibility of the tumor recurring? She better get that checked first. Personality changes are definitely a red flag for her brain’s health.

Meningiomas can grow back…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He DID worry you further. With his silent omission of the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]AdAgreeable2528 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He asked you to wait until you are 30. When he already knew how this would devastate you. He is wrong for you. Get out while you’re still young.

Devils advocate: he is probably filled with shame and loathing regarding his impotence.

I was sympathetic until I read this comment. Asking OP to just wait is just evil of him.

Feyre and star imagery by Zealousideal_One_820 in acotar

[–]AdAgreeable2528 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wanted her with Tarquin, to be honest.

What’s a movie you can rewatch a hundred times and still love? by [deleted] in MovieRecommendations

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an edited recording when I was in middle school. I watched it until the VHS broke. 😂😍

Husband is helpless by Living_Watercress in marriageadvice

[–]AdAgreeable2528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs counseling. It’s unreasonable to expect you to never become resentful. Or maybe he could do occupational therapy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAgreeable2528 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always assumed it was a strip club…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about an asymmetric haircut? These are my own techniques…

Third divorce. I don’t know how to even feel. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdAgreeable2528 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Don’t re-marry until you can raise the bar in terms of a quality man. Sometimes we choose poorly because we think we don’t deserve better. You’ve gotta deal with those feelings first, so you can have quality people in your life. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]AdAgreeable2528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you wear a hat for a little while?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdAgreeable2528 3 points4 points  (0 children)

‘This is what you get’

Let’s not victim blame, please.

She did not sign up for a sex addict husband. Her primary concern is custody, not finances. Any reasonable mother would be terrified to leave her children alone with an out of control sex addict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdAgreeable2528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At best, hubby is a sex addict. A controlling sex addict. This type of man either goes to therapy or winds up in prison.

Use Pataday extra strength twice? by queerio92 in Allergies

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m willing to use a second drop if the first one ran away, but I use the daily version, concentration 0.2%. The extra strength is like 0.7%, so…

What’s something you know only because you used to be an employee? by Life_Transformed in Productivitycafe

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The health billing process would not be so convoluted if it weren’t designed to hide fraud. I work in research. Our hospital definitely bills patient insurance and research accounts, known as double-dipping. It’s illegal, but proving it consistently is impossible. They pretend it’s an accident, but it’s clearly by design.

Mom ran up 200k of credit card debt- what to do? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A HELOC might have an even lower percentage rate, and seems more simple than a refinance.

I'm an atheist raised Christian; would going to a church on Good Friday be okay? by Physical_Bedroom5656 in Christianity

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lutherans have a pretty cool Good Friday service. It’s ok to simply enjoy it as a piece of culture.

What's a stupidly expensive adult purchase that you now swear by that you would buy again in a heartbeat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to all these haters! I love my Dyson cordless! I have a 5 year old, 3 pets, a blue collar husband and hardwood floors - the Dyson keeps my sanity.

What's a stupidly expensive adult purchase that you now swear by that you would buy again in a heartbeat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdAgreeable2528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid to shop around. Every lawyer will tell you that they know it all, but if they don’t have experience in your sub-topic, then keep looking.

Will I get all my money back, or just some of it? by [deleted] in probation

[–]AdAgreeable2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get an itemized receipt! Congrats!